I need to stop replying to āhow do you make friends in your 30s?ā threads because all my answers boil down to āyou have to want to know people instead of have friendsā and I donāt think people wanna hear that
Itās like. People can tell if you donāt really like or connect with them. If you arenāt truly enamored with someone you will have a hard time coming up with activities to do together to deepen the friendship. Because you donāt really like that person that much.


















