I'm in love with you, and all your little things♥

#hades pulling persephone into the underworld on may 17 2015 in cannes france (via xjehan)

having parents that were really angry and petty and abusive when you were young is weird, because it makes part of you grow up to want to be kind, to generate good things, to be a source of peace and wellbeing for others; but it makes another part of you grow up to be quick, and sharp, and spiteful, and that’s always the part that shows itself first in a hard situation, so it’s a struggle between your hateful gut reactions and your wish to not add any more misery to the world. it’s a hard balance, and the people who really, really know me - i know they see that anger flash in my eyes before i quiet it, if i quiet it…i want to overcome years of conditioning, and with gentle, constant force, i know i’ll mellow it. it just takes time.

and get rid of it!

a girlfriend is just a best friend that touches you inappropriately.

Cool idea: having both sexual AND nonsexual LGBT+ spaces because there are multiple groups of people that really need and would appreciate the latter (myself included, still waiting for nice quiet gay cafés to go to), but at the same time we need to acknowledge our history and the criminalization and continued stigmatization of our sexualities that make the former subversive and important, and the uncomfortable implications of people wanting those spaces altered/eradicated. 

^ YES TO THIS IDEA

NEED! ♥