What do you think of the homophobia in the community? I'm a lesbian. A gender conforming femme, too. Admittedly, I wanted to educate myself on hetgnc existence, right? So I was looked through the big blogs the other day and caught hold of micro agressions in the texts. Genuinely cannot understand it since:
1. Being HetGNC isn't exactly straight. It's very queer. Fem4Fem Viragos aren't your spitting image of a patriarchal relationship.
2. To my knowledge the creator is a sapphic who has mostly dated women. This doesn't excuse her of lesbophobia, but it's a solid case that it isn't welcome.
It spiked up specifically in our previous conversations regarding the Butch label. Bisexual masculine women are alienated from the community since the Bi Butch is a very sensitive topic for some people.
Anibelle and I have seperately spoke about how Some (yt american) lesbians on here are very conservative about it and how it's effected us. This shouldn't give straight people the queue to step in on an issue that isn't theirs to begin with.
mono hetgnc people should know they're queer, just not gay and deffo shut the fuck up when gay people are talking about our issues within our communities.