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a good third of tumblr is basically palliative care for people who have doctor's notes to say they're excused from changing, growing or acknowledging anybody else's life experiences. 4chan doomerism but the slurs are reclaimed.

it’s been said before and it will be said again but i’m begging you all nicely to restrain yourselves from being so casually aggressive and rude and obnoxious in the tags & reblogs of a complete stranger’s posts. no one wants to know that you hate [tv show that op giffed]. no one wants to know that you hate [character that op drew]. no one wants to hear you being ugly and negative for no reason. say what you want to say in your own post. don’t hit the reblog button. blacklist relevant tags. unfollow or block relevant accounts. log out. shut down. get help.

LOUDER FOR EVERYONE IN THE BACK!!!!

This also goes for bugs. If I had a dollar for every time I had to block someone in the comments saying how disgusting the bug in the post was I’d be rolling around in hundred dollar bills

modern social media should stop offering "sync with your phone contacts to follow them" options and start offering "block all your phone contacts so they never see your account" options

im a lesbian but posting about objectifying men will never not be funny. like yesssss big muscle men why dont you bend over and whimper for me. with your stupid fucking tits out.

get you a man who can do both? ..show me a man who can do one (1) thing correctly…

*shoves Thomas Sanders in your face*

unbelievable that we really just used to let this sort of behavior slide

working full time is terrible why do we just accept that having 8 days off a month is normal and okay........ being alive could be cool but we waste it at our JOBS.... sorry i’m just heated about capitalism again i’ll be fine

not to be dramatic but the amount of people commenting on this post that I should stop whining and be grateful for having two days off a week when they only get one or none is...... literally proving my point that we’re all brainwashed ghfjhddjfk... thats like if someone cut off your arms and then only cut off one of mine, you focus on how much worse you have it instead of the fact that we’re still both fucking bleeding out 

oh my god when terfs push to ban trans women from competitive sport that “don’t make sense” like darts, chess, e-sports etc it’s not because they’re “admitting” they think cis women are worse at hand eye coordination or chess or gaming. it is just because they don’t want trans women to compete in anything at all, because they think we shouldn’t exist in the public eye. i understand the misconception, but we don’t need to invent an internally consistent motivation to claim they have; the “internal consistency” to them is that trans women are not women and thus don’t deserve to play alongside cis women. it’s the exact same idea as banning trans women from women’s bathrooms. they don’t want us to use the men’s, they want us to not have a public place we can go to at all.

a lot of people seem to not understand that the most fundamental part of TERF politics is exclusion & demonisation of transfemininity specifically. all of those rhetorical arguments they use about chromosomes and socialisation are literally just excuses they came up with later to justify that hatred, same as any other hategroup.

no an abnormally short person isn’t ’child coded’ what is actually wrong with you

yes i’m having this talk again can you like. stop infantilizing little people. can you be normal about little people

if tumblr was a forest i'd "re-log" posts ha ha

perverted

if jame7t was no longer with us id "re-sob" at their memory ha ha

scared

For context this was in response to someone saying their cybertruck was heavy duty

thank you for talking in depth about this fucking thang whereas i did not! large appreciation

begging you gals to critically examine your relationship with transfemininity and interrogate your internalized transmisogyny because it is so very obvious that some of you haven't. i promise you will be so much happier and healthier and comfortable with yourself if you do so. like so many posts on this site i see have me sitting here like "girl the call is coming from inside the house you need to reexamine that thought process." learn to love yourself and have some self respect.

this goes out to the girls whose eggs were cracked by fetish porn. this goes out to the girls who spent their formative years on 4chan or other insular online communities. this goes out to the girls who think their suffering defines their transness. this goes out to the girls who think chasers are the best they can do. you deserve better. you may not believe it but you do.

friendly reminder that YOU 🫵 can make even the most relaxing innocuous activities into high stress situations if you’re mentally ill enough. always believe in yourself and your incapacity to conquer catastrophic thinking!