god sorry to still be on this but I guess itâs just kind of crazymaking that you can make a post thatâs fundamentally about terminology and theory and structures of oppression and somebody will turn around and go âwhy would you say these things about this kind of person?â and itâs like. well I didnât, you see? like I didnât, I didnât say anything at all about any type of person, my post was about words and what they mean and donât mean. my post was about systems and how theyâre enforced. it wasnât personal. someone else who was mad about the same post and screenshotted it to tell people to block me (while also not blocking me themself???) suggested that by making this post about terminology it was clear that I must also use a bunch of super derogatory 4chan language. on what basis? I have never at any point used any of the words they listed, other than perhaps in private with friends when discussing how awful those terms are to call people and how against them I am. none of the people whoâve taken a problem with this post Iâve made have really actually addressed anything I actually said. theyâve had to disagree with me by inventing hypotheticals around what I might think or say, or claiming that Iâm saying âweirdâ things about a specific type of person simply by naming these terms and defining what they do or do not mean. no real statement of value about anyone those terms might apply to, mind you. I just think thatâs interesting, you know?
I know it's not your first time, but sharing in solidarity bc facts. These people will beat an effigy they made of you, of what they WANTED you to have meant and believed, instead of engaging with what you ACTUALLY meant and believed. You really can't even take it personally past a certain point because it's not even about You at that point, just what they need you to be. đŤ
Thank you friend! And yeah honestly, like Iâm very used to it at this point all things considered but sometimes you really do just have to be like⌠hey what the fuck? Like itâs just kind of amazing the hoops people will jump through to make a villain out of somebody who isnât even actually doing the things theyâre mad about!























