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sturgeonsdesigns

id: a dark blue sticker that says "transfem butches enrich butchness". the text is surrounded by deer antlers, flowers, and a shining moon

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#butch #trans #yes

boxeater2000

Butchness is not separate from femininity.

Butch and femme are political identities. I see a lot of posts that celebrate femmes who don't present the way society wants them to or says they should because of the label they use. I love the femmes who don't adhere to the made up rules that society has created.

But I also love the butches who do the same.

Butches, your butchness is not defined by how masculine you are. If you wear a dress, then you are simply a butch in a dress. If you like to wear high heels, then you are one tall fucking butch in those heels. Your identity is not defined by how masculinely you present at every given moment. I am just as butch when my femme is baby talking me or when I'm whiny because I have a cold. I am butch in every moment of my life, no matter what, because that is my gender and my identity.

You do not lose your butchness in the moments where you do not feel masculine. If anything, you are even more butch because you are rejecting the status quo of gender. Butch and femme are gender identities in which the dykes who identify with them do not express gender "properly." The way gender is dictated is not something these identities follow.

Butches have historically been ostracized for their masculinity, and that destroys me because it feels as if so many of us are now afraid to rejoice in anything deemed remotely ‘feminine’.

For so long I was fearful of what being ‘non-masculine’ would mean in regards to my gender. But guess what? It means nothing. It means I am butch and I enjoy the colour pink sometimes, and that I love littlest pet shop.

Your femininity does not make you less butch, and your masculinity does not make you more butch.

You are just butch.

#butch

dog-on-prog

every week she kicks my ass at big buck hunter but i still love her

dog-on-prog

i wanna bring this back around to say i have won the last 2 times, maybe my girlfail arc is ending

#couple

doyoulovethewayzeylily

you'll feel like a total dipshit train wreck and no matter what some girl is gonna see you and think "role model". you can't kill yourself you have to go be clocky in the gas station so a 14 year old can have the trajectory of her life altered forever

duchessvongooseberg

as annoying as it is to work fast food, at my previous job one time a kid recognized the theta delta pin on my hat and was so fucking excited because i was the first other therian they had ever encountered offline.

"hey....are you a therian?" "yeah!" "what kind of animal?" "eh, some kinda dog" "😲😀 im like a wolf coyote hybrid" "that's fuckin awesome"

to be weird is to cast lifelines all around you

doyoulovethewayzeylily

tags from @k1ntsug1-r0b0t-g1rl

what really drives me nuts is that like. this happens an average of x times per year as a visibly weird person, but we only get made aware of it a small fraction of the time. you can't kill yourself you have to be clocky in the gas station.

analogdelight

Being clocky when i was working as a barista was one of my big joys. Being clocky when i was teaching high schoolers how to play the marimba was my reason for being for half a decade. It sucks how scared I am to leave the house I live in now. But I still need to try and be clocky at the grocery store. I wish i had a job to be clocky at. Being visibly me is one of the most radical acts I'm capable of, and I hope that one day we live in a world where it isn't radical at all.

doyoulovethewayzeylily

that's exactly what I was feeling when I wrote this. we all find ways to defy our fear, love is an excellent motivator.

fajitajane

I love going out being clocky. I love seeing a young queer as a cashier. Usually I'm wearing a mask so I imagine folks can't quitr tell until I speak. I almost always complimented on my hair by these folks too. I love being able to thank them and give them a compliment in return.

#trans #youth

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beatrixbenic

i want sapphic women to look at me in public and think ‘i hope she likes girls’

#general #yes #relatable

living-and-dyking

vintage dyke pins ⚢

#history #buttons #<3

qcharlie

there's nothing more radiant than a trans person's smile and you must dedicate your entire life to making them occur as often as possible. it is non negotiable

#trans #yes

ashnods-transfemogrant

you need to love the bpd trans girl btw. u need to see how scared she is, how desperate she is for attention n love and reassurance, and u have to love her. you need to let her know she isnt a bother or hard to love, too. u need to let her know shes loved n ur not gonna leave her

#trans #BPD #mental illness

mayakern

tender 🧡

#art #interracial

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cuckerfailson

and sister? that revolutionary reality is waiting outside. take that fucking estrogen. wear that skirt in public. carry a fucking gun or a taser or pepper spray. attend that martial arts or self defense course. go to the lesbian event that kind of sucks. we will fucking win. do you understand this yet?

#general #trans #closet

miyoria

duckduckgo fuck yourself

miyoria

trying to search for like the one thing that treats us like any other girl for once!! only to be met with a reminder that we are considered a porn category first. it makes me so very sad and upset.

miyoria

you can have this it is real

mikus-sleepiest

I met the girls selling this today at a local zine thing and they said it'll take like a month to restock "because it went viral on tumblr" lol

they still have stickers and another mini-zine though :)

#trans

femme-fangs

it's mandatory i fear. sorry i don't make the rules :/

#humor

bintro

#lesbian #humor

transfem-berdly-deltarune

everybody say i love you black trans women

leclecarchie

I love you black trans women! 💖💖💖💖

#twoc #woc #trans #black trans women #black wlw

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