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Jamie
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bigender boygirl
bi/omni demiromantic asexual
altersex/aphrodisian
it/they pronouns
my identity is not up for debate, don't even try
website, click here for more info on me!

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Intersex people: Being intersex does not mean you can’t be male or female
Perisex people: Ohhh okay! I see now!
Intersex people: Thank you
Perisex people: All intersex people are just AFABs and AMABs with slight variations!
Intersex people: ????????????
#this and also ‘intersex people are just afabs who want to feel special’ I’m exploding all you cars w hammers
I want everyone who says that to hear what cis women say about people with PMOS and CAH, or what happens when someone is diagnosed with these.
Is this just me or is it normal to get annoyed when you see posts describing nonbinary identity (especially xenogender ones) and people in the comments are like "yesss you go play with your gender"
Like. I'm not fucking playing? It's not toys for me? It's my identity and you should treat it seriously. You wouldn't say that about binary identities, would you?
I don't care if you see my gender as silly or something. Treat it seriously.
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yes, this million times! i don't like the idea that nonbinary genders are inherently silly and playful. it may be true for some people and/or some situations (sometimes i am in the mood for some silliness and jokes around my genders and stuff). but it's not the only possible relation to one's gender or genders. it's not the only possible narrative. and it starts to feel really exorsexist when people only pay attention to possible silliness and playfulness of nonbinary people's labels and relationships with genders.
nonbinary genders are not inherently silly. multigenderness, combined/joined/fused labels (like boygirl), lesser known genders, xenogenders, neogenders, any nonbinary genders and nonbinary-specific labels and experiences are not inherently silly funny playing with toys. our genders, labels, and other identities are as serious as binary people's. some binary people can be silly and playful about their gender, expression, labels, and other things, but it doesn't mean that it's the only way to interact with these gender, expression, labels, etc.
we deserve to be taken seriously.
if the conversation is serious and doesn't hint at playfulness and silliness in any way, it's exorsexist to assume silliness just because the person is nonbinary and describes it in nonbinary-centering labels.
fat maveriques, fat enbies, fat transgender people deserve gender-affirming healthcare.
if you can accept that there will be trans men who look virtually indistinguishable from cis women, than you can accept that there will be trans women who look virtually indistinguishable from cis men. either by choice or by circumstance. and if you can't respect them the same as you would anybody else, you need to examine why that is

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Anti AGAB + TME/TMA (Full pack)
This is a good idea!
I love people who are cis+. The ones who took the time to think about gender and decided they liked the one they were given. They project good gender vibes even if they aren't trans.
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update:
“he”?
confirmed
I’ve seen this post a bunch and never once did I consider a scenario where it wasn’t about a woman.
hey. Wanna hear something funny
HE IS A DUDE!
THE PLOT TWIST A LIFETIME
HE *DID* DO HER RIGHT!
Hello! My name is Von. I am a trans dude out in Brooklyn and I finally have a top surger… Von Morris needs your support for Help Von Recove
Putting the link in the post.
As someone in a relationship with a Hawaiian shirt wearing trans dude who will, ah, do me right, my initial assumption was completely correct.
"Are butches butches because they love femmes, or because there's something about our gender expression? It would seem to be just sort of a moot point, like how many angels can dance on the head of a pin, which came first, the butchness or the lesbianism, except that there's another one of these great misunderstandings: if you simply identify that butch and femme go together like love and marriage, like horse and carriage, like soup and sandwich, then it leaves out butches who are attracted to other butches; it leaves out femmes who wanna be with other femmes; it leaves out bisexual butches; it leaves no area at all to define why some women are so masculine and yet are heterosexual. To me, being butch doesn't mean what you do in bed. I mean, to be butch on the street, that's what being butch is to me. When a group of bashers, on the street, says, 'there goes one of them now,' that is the social definition of what butch is. And if you can survive that on the streets, you have the right to go home and do any thing in any combination in bed that you want, without being ashamed of yourself."
Leslie Feinberg in Outlaw (1994) - dir. Alisa Lebow

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Nobody ever talks about body masculinization surgery I mean ok top surgery is great but body masculinization surgery is genuinely super baller and nobody talks about it. The results are great also. It gets talked about less than phalloplasty and that’s already a lot to say
Shit ton of people in the notes screaming about not even knowing this was an option. Which is crazy to me
Transmasculine procedures that you might not know are an option:
Facial Masculinization (FMS) . Which includes:
Tracheal Augmentation: Creating an Adam's Apple.
Rhinoplasty: AKA a "nose-job" , while many people get these to make there nose smaller, transmasc people can also get them to make ther bridge and the overall structure larger, wider, and more prominent.
Brow Bone Augmentation & Hairline Repositioning (this usually involves adding an implant)
Jaw and Chin Augmentation (this usually involves adding an implant)
Buccal Fat Removal: Removes fat from the cheeks, to make the face less round.
Dermal Fillers: Temporarily builds volume in the chin, cheeks, or jawline without major surgery.
Beard implant: Moves hair follicles from a donor area (usually the back of the scalp or under the chin) onto the face to create a thicker or fuller beard
Vocal masculinization. Which includes:
Type III thyroplasty: lowers the pitch of someone's voice by relaxing the vocal chords.
Injection laryngoplasty: adding volume to the vocal folds using derma fillers or autologous fat. Derma fillers are temporary and fat grafting is significantly more long lasting.
Direct vocal fold testosterone injections: Exactly what it says in the tin, they inject testerone directly into your vocal chords and it lowers the pitch. This is a new procedure and we're unsure if it's temporary or permanent.
Body Masculinization. Which includes:
Body Sculpting Liposuction: Removes fat from the hips, flanks, thighs, and lower back to straighten the waistline and square the torso.
Top Surgery or chest masculization. Which includes:
Double Incision mastectomy: This is the one most people know. Two long horizontal cuts across the chest; used for medium to large chests or extra skin; nipples are typically resized and grafted back on. You can leave the nipples off if you want. There is a small chance of loosing nipple sensation.
Inverted-T (Anchor): Uses a horizontal cut plus a vertical drop down to the nipple; keeps the nipple attached to its blood supply/nerves; good for larger chests wanting to save nipple sensation.
Buttonhole: Similar to the inverted-T but without a major vertical skin removal; keeps the nipple attached on a stalk to preserve sensation.
Peri-Areolar (Circumareolar): A circular cut around the outer edge of the areola to remove tissue and extra skin rings; best for small chests with good skin snap-back.
Keyhole: A tiny cut along the bottom edge of the areola; used for very small chests (A-cup or small B-cup) with no loose skin; leaves minimal scarring.
Bottom Surgery or FTM/FTX SRS:
Phalloplasty: Builds a full-sized penis using a skin and tissue graft from the forearm or thigh, done in multiple stages and often including urethral lengthening and erectile implants (see more on erectile implants in the next section). The natal neo phallus is typically buried at the root of the phalloplasty shaft. There is unfortunately a lot of fear mongering and misinformation about Phalloplasty. Most Phalloplasty images you see shared are either mid stage (not completed) and/or haven't healed yet.
Glansplasty: This surgical procedure creates the look of a circumcised penis. A crown is added after phalloplasty for a more aesthetically typical phallus.
Glans Implant: silicone ridge added to Glansplasty to prevent flattening. To my knowledge currently only Dr. Curtis Cane performs this.
Metoidioplasty: AKA "Meta". Uses the natal neo phallus growth that develops from being on testosterone therapy to create a small (2-3 inches typically) penis, preserving full sensation, the ability to have erection without an implant or external device, and has a shorter recovery time.
Scrotoplasty: Shapes labial tissue into a scrotum and places silicone testicular implants. Avaliable with both phalloplasty and metodioplastly.
Urethroplasty: lengthen and reroute the urethra, which allows you to stand and pee. Possible with Phalloplasty, metodioplastly, and non phallus constructive vaginectomy.
Vaginectomy: Removal of the vaginal canal and labia and the the vaginal opening is sutured shut. This is not required to have Phalloplasty or metodioplastly. It is also possible to get a vaginectomy without constructing a phallus, resulting in a smooth transition from the abdomen to the groin, without any genitals. A hysterectomy is required to get a vaginectomy.
Erectile Implants for Phalloplasty. Which include:
Inflatable Implants: Fluid-filled systems (available in 2-piece or 3-piece configurations) that use a scrotal pump to inflate cylinders for an erection and a release valve to return to a flaccid state.
Malleable Implants: Aka "semi-rigid rods". Bendable silicone or wire rods laced inside the phallus that can be manually moved up for use and down for concealment.
The ZSI-475 FTM: This is the only implant designed specifically with transgender men in mind. It is an inflatable implant and has a single piece configuration. It provides an incorporated anchorage plate, in the proximal part of the cylinder, composed of stainless steel and silicone to be sealed with four non-absorbable stitches to the pubic periosteum. The pump is testicle-shaped to improve aesthetical appearance of the scrotum. It is a relatively new implant and less data on it is avaliable in comparison to other erectile implants.
Non Surgical Erectile Devices for trans men post bottom surgery:
The Elator: Consists of two silicone or expandable bands connected by plastic-coated rigid or flexible metal support rods, which hold the phalloplasty in an erect position.
Erectile Sleeves: Hollow silicone or cyber-skin shafts worn over the phallus to add girth and relative firmness. There are ones made for phalloplasty and ones made for metodioplastly. Metodioplasties are able to become erect on their own since they are made from the natal neo phallus (bottom growth), but typically they don't have enough length to penatrate, so their are ribbed suction erectile sleeves that fit over the post-metodioplastly phallus to give additional length.
Im always like "i will not add my two cents. i will not add my two cents" but i cant lie the pennies are getting sweaty in my hand
read your post about wanting to be androgynous and other non-binary people not being supportive. that is stupid and dumb. you deserve support and love and respect, even and especially if you aren't conforming to the norms of society. I hope you look so androgynous people stammer over what pronouns to call you and give up and ask. and I hope people respect your pronouns. I hope you are exactly how you want to look. good luck.
(post in question https://www.tumblr.com/sapphic-boy/805321889474084864/you-dont-have-to-be-androgynous-theres-no-one?source=share)
thank u so much, i feel like i've attained some level of androgyny, it seems kind of random whether someone calls me sir or miss, and just today i was waiting outside the bathroom in my wheelchair bc i thought someone was in it (there wasn't lmao) and a lady came to help me and she seemed a little confused that i was going into the women's bathroom lol, and then right after i was at the pharmacy with my gf and this elderly woman referred to us as "you two young ladies" while the other day the maintenance guys who came to fix our washing machine called me "he" so, while i do wish people would outright not know what to refer to me as, its still cool that different people call me different things
Shoutout to the nonbinary people that aren’t agender.
To the ones that feel more. More than a man, more than a woman, more than gender itself.
And yes, even to the ones that aren’t exactly trans, but aren’t exactly cis either. I love you all <3
would you do some lesboy decor with puppyboy themes? blue tones would be great but are absolutely not necessary if it doesn't end up working artistically lol. Thanks either way!
ya, thanks for the fun req ^-^

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many people will tell you that taking testosterone will turn you into a scary horny fat hairy wolfman. what they don’t tell you is that being a scary horny fat hairy wolfman fucking whips ass and you’ll love it
Random thought (I apologize) but I always imagined gynine and andrine (and by extension andrigynine) would be the fe/male gender symbols but the stem would be disconnected with small dots toward the arrow part(s) as a way to show connection without connecting because it’s a quality connected to a gender not a gender in of itself. Idk if that’s anything.
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