sann • she

I am not harmed when I see a sponge

seeing a starfish is normal and doesnt hurt me

squidward is my master

squidward will cure me

I am not harmed when I see a clarinet

I am not harmed when I see a cash register

my opinions dont matter

I am not harmed when I see a squilliam

when I obsess over squilliam Im hurting myself

she got burned at the stake for wearing men's clothes, she was a teenage warrior protecting her country with whole patriarchal systems against her, show some fucking respect

"That's transmasc!"

Shut the fuck up.

To immediately imply that a woman isn't a woman just because she is masculine and presents as such is blatantly misogynistic, sexist, and pushes patriarchal dress codes.

This has happened to me, other users, friends I know in real life and online, historical figures who have since died, and so on. It is most concerning when trying to assume a historical figure would identify differently in this day and age, why don't you just respect what they identified as before they died? It's not that fuckin hard.

I am exhausted by multiple people having tried to insist that I am not a woman--that I am transmasc, nonbinary, genderqueer, genderfluid, etc. because I am a butch lesbian. I genuinely cannot catch a break.

And it does not help that people also deny my womanhood because I am intersex, which is not only sexist but also ableist.

Y'all need to do some deep thinking and reflect on the principles you think you stand for but are actually regressing.

When I commented on their post they immediately deleted my comment calling them out! Wish I had taken a screenshot of it but oh well, at least they admit they deleted it though.

But I'll say it here for you again!!!

You are an absolute disgusting human being for denying my race, my sex, my gender, my detransition, my experiences, and my friend's experiences with such as well. You claim to be against sexism and misogyny while you insult and attack women simply advocating for women to express themselves as they want without feeling less than women. You tell women to kill themselves and claim they aren't even women because you disagree with them. I don't like terfs, I think being a transphobe is stupid, but you will never see me wishing death on someone or disrespecting them in such a way. I had agreed with and defended your right to express yourself with your gender the entire time, trying to explain to you the meaning behind the post which you misunderstood. For you to be so blatantly disrespectful and bigoted, sexist and misogynistic, and downright awful towards people is concerning. I am not religious but I pray that you do some deep self reflection and really think about the things you say you stand for.

Sexist :

The TERF shit flying apparently :

When I commented on their post they immediately deleted my comment calling them out! Wish I had taken a screenshot of it but oh well, at least they admit they deleted it though.

But I'll say it here for you again!!!

You are an absolute disgusting human being for denying my race, my sex, my gender, my detransition, my experiences, and my friend's experiences with such as well. You claim to be against sexism and misogyny while you insult and attack women simply advocating for women to express themselves as they want without feeling less than women. You tell women to kill themselves and claim they aren't even women because you disagree with them. I don't like terfs, I think being a transphobe is stupid, but you will never see me wishing death on someone or disrespecting them in such a way. I had agreed with and defended your right to express yourself with your gender the entire time, trying to explain to you the meaning behind the post which you misunderstood. For you to be so blatantly disrespectful and bigoted, sexist and misogynistic, and downright awful towards people is concerning. I am not religious but I pray that you do some deep self reflection and really think about the things you say you stand for.

Sexist :

The TERF shit flying apparently :

It is not about nonbinary people or saying they don't exist, it is about women who feel the need to call themselves nonbinary because of societal pressure and beauty standards.

This is a conversation about the patriarchal pressure of gender roles, stereotypes, and beauty standards placed on women.

If you are genuinely nonbinary, good for you, whatever makes you feel most like yourself. But you do not have to think of yourself as any less of a woman just because you are not a carbon copy of the standard for beauty.

There is often a deep rooted sexist belief within these people that lead them to believe they must not be women as well. I hope for them to take time to self reflect and learn to deconstruct that way of thinking.

I've seen several people in your askbox quite aggressively accuse you of being transphobic. I personally don't agree with their method of communication, but can't help but see their point. Im not looking for any sort of argument, I just enjoy discussing these things with those of different viewpoints

I believe that people are mainly referring to the content you reblog regarding detransitioning (at least, that's the biggest concern I have) I fully support detransitioners, as long as people are living their truth I'm happy. What I do have an issue with is those who don't support gender affirming care as an intervention.

Many of the posts you have reblogged without comment regarding this topic paint things like HRT as life ruining. For some it absolutely is, however a lot of the posts I have seen you reblog word the issue as if it is for everybody, regardless of outside factors.

Apologies for the lengthy background, I've never been good at being concise with my language. Essentially, I'm curious regarding your views on the topic of gender affirming care and would love to discuss further if you are open to such a conversation!

Once again, feel free to ignore this if you'd like, or DM me if you would prefer to speak privately

Thank you for your time!

First of all I don't think I have reblogged any post regarding detransition in that light whatsoever unless I am forgetting doing so. So I would really like to see which post you are referring to if there is one.

Secondly, I have never and will never not support gender affirming care for those who need it and are capable of deciding so for themselves.

I am not sure if you are confusing me for someone else who has reblogged or said things such as this?

Either way I'm glad to give my opinions here anyway to clear up confusion.

I am a child detransitioner myself and have personally been permanently affected by transitioning as a child. It does not work for a lot of people and I believe it should not be a resource available to impressionable, unpredictable, and irresponsible children who do not know who they are yet. That is probably my most "controversial" take on things of that nature. I do not care whatsoever what an adult does to their body for transition, they are capable of making that decision and have a much better grasp on their identity and who they are and what they want.

Let's not demonize homosexuals for being homosexuals again, you're literally no different than those in the 1950s and earlier.

Also genital preferences are not immoral or wrong, you're immoral and wrong for thinking you can force someone to have sex with you.

If you have to force someone to have sex with you to feel validated, you should do some self reflection and figure out why it means to damn much to you.

Literally rapist behavior, feeling entitled to sex despite peoples' consent.

Get that fuckass 'queer' label out of here, it is women loving women. You have let men invade our spaces using this stupid, twisted, completely wrong definition of lesbian and I am sick of it.

Use the countless many other labels made specifically for you instead of butchering the meaning of lesbian and posing as one.