I am not harmed when I see a sponge

seeing a starfish is normal and doesnt hurt me

squidward is my master

squidward will cure me

I am not harmed when I see a clarinet

I am not harmed when I see a cash register

my opinions dont matter

I am not harmed when I see a squilliam

when I obsess over squilliam Im hurting myself

I haven't been sent rape and death threats by any cishet person before because of my stances and orientation 🤔

If you have to force someone to have sex with you to feel validated, you should do some self reflection and figure out why it means to damn much to you.

Literally rapist behavior, feeling entitled to sex despite peoples' consent.

Let's not demonize homosexuals for being homosexuals again, you're literally no different than those in the 1950s and earlier.

Also genital preferences are not immoral or wrong, you're immoral and wrong for thinking you can force someone to have sex with you.

Wouldn't that be gender essentialism

People who want to abolish gender are idiots, I'm gonna be honest. We have been referred to and differentiated as man and women since the 13th fucking century lol, this isn't a new concept. That is over 820 years ago.

Not to mention, by trying to rid of gender entirely you are literally erasing and belittling transgender people by saying "well your transition and gender identity and dysphoria don't actually mean anything because gender is made up".

Also most people are generally proud of their gender, I am very much proud to be a woman! Have you completely forgotten the fight for women's rights in the past? How important that was? Oh but that doesn't matter because women aren't actually a thing so lets forget the history behind them.

I am beyond annoyed whenever someone tries to tell me that I'm not a woman because it doesn't actually exist, especially as an intersex butch woman who is also a child detransitioner. I have been told time and time again that I am not a woman whether it be because I'm a butch, masculine, intersex, or because I once identified as a man and went through with transition as a child.

I have been put down, devalued, and unaccepted by people around me for these things and I will not let anyone tell me I am anything other than a woman.

Don't force your erasure onto people.

And people claim "that isn't happening!".....

I don't like it when trans men also claim to be lesbians though, as they are men.

It's like people are scared to be straight cause it won't make them special.