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Adding "you would be friends with Hitler if he liked vocaloid" to that same list as "y'all would fuck a fence if it was white"

It’s okay to not want to have sex ever. It’s okay to never even try it.

sex-repulsed people are fully within our rights to be cranky and blunt about not liking sex and how it's fucking everywhere btw. we shouldn't have to tiptoe around and make sure our phrasing is perfectly squeaky clean because people interpret any criticism of sex and sexualization as puritanism. venting about compulsory sexuality is not purity culture. maybe you could stand to learn a thing or two from us.

being nonbinary is sick as fuck but sometimes there is also the isolation

people like the idea that there is an identity they can claim that will absolve them of the responsibility to examine their beliefs and actions and adjust them accordingly to better align with their values and desired outcomes but there isn't, we all have to practice humility and do the work regardless

we have to thank our brave soldiers in fandom who write gen fics. we have to thank our brave soldiers in fandom who write character studies and stories with no focus on romance or sex. we have to get on our knees and thank the brave soldiers in fandom who write about minor characters and friendship and family with no focus on romance or sex. i know it’s hard to care about characters in a world that seems to only revolve around ships but i see you. and i love you

allonormativity is socially conservative

There is something deeply insidious about people who cannot let there be space for asexuals who don't want to have sex and feel the need to inject "but some asexuals do like sex!" into every conversation and I'm no longer going to be nice about it

happy pride especially to disabled queer people who can't go to pride events with the rest of their community because they're not accessible. who have to call and email organizers and beg for info. who get told that their disability or access need is too hard or espensive to accommodate. who get told "I don't know" when they ask what accommodations are in place. you deserve to be included. you deserve to have access information be as publicly and readily accessible as everything else. please never stop being annoying about demanding inclusion.

every time a young gay person quits smoking or makes the decision that they want to quit, the sun shines on us all with the promise of happiness and beauty.

being anti-amatonormativity in a romance centered world is like watching half the people who you know put all their eggs in one basket and then drop the basket and all their eggs break and they’re crying and swearing they’re never gonna do that again and then a month later they have all new eggs in a new basket and they tell you the problem was they didn’t have a strong enough basket or fresh enough eggs and then they drop the fucking basket again.

"sex positivity includes asexuals" does it? does it include asexuals? because from my point of view it's more like some little mermaid shit where we're nominally "included" as long as we give up our ability to speak about issues that affect us. sex positivity does not include asexuals, it expropriates us.