Jesus, Cats, Writing, and Life

When I am the forced sex object, the punching bag, or the one that has no voice whatsoever, that's when people want me around. But when I stand up for myself, set boundaries, call out bad behavior, and actually work for real reciprocity in relationships, then I become the problem.

When will the injustice of it all end God? When will someone finally see me?

New portion seven hours later.

This video came up in my YouTube feed this morning. For anyone reading this guys, this is real. This is a real concept. If you know someone like this, show them love and support. There are more of us out there than you realize. And we desperately can use encouragement. This is becoming a real problem. It's not just people being overdramatic. This type of thing is literally killing people.

What happens is people are often raised like this, they break free from their family system later in life, then they end up in a string of relationships very similar to their family. They are looking for stability and consistency and mutual support and have trouble finding it. Then they end up feeling completely isolated and alone. So if you have someone in your life like this, if you know anyone going through something similar, love them and pray for them. You cannot fix them, that is not your responsibility, but you can help and you can love and you can support. Do not minimize their pain. Just be there in whatever capacity God would ask of you.