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This USA-based research project wants your name change stories for a trans-supportive name change workbook.

And when a kid would assert something incorrect In class, he wouldn't tell them they were wrong, he would help lead them to the right answer and then when they admitted/ accepted the new information, he'd say "now we're both right! Nice work!"

Anyway so because of this people tend to see me as a know-it-all refuses to be wrong kind of person (my own mother has criticised me for this as if it isn’t her fault… anyway) but usually the answer is “I googled it five times because I was scared of being seen as wrong”

YES aroaces can be in relationships(like me!). YES aroaces can be in love. YES aroaces can do/be interested in romance/sex. they are STILL aroace, as it is a spectrum. however, NO you can not use "but aroaces can still date/have sex!" as an excuse to shove aside their identity for your allo ships.

I am so sick of when one trans men is shitty in some way, like being racist or transmisogynistic, people are like "omg this is proof every single trans men ever is an evil horrible person"

but then a trans woman can be like incredibly bigoted and racist and if you call that single person out for it, just that person, then you're a transmisogynist and how dare you accuse them of anything, because women are the Good Gender and are pure and can't be abusive or bigoted or rapists and men are the Evil Gender and every single man ever is a rapist

and it's like...idk how to express this because like trans women are pedojacketed and generalized by cis people constantly, but trans men are also treated horribly by cis people (fucking look at ANYTHING to do with Elliot Page), but transandrophobes will act like every trans man is evil and deserves anythhing that happens to them. and that trans women can do no wrong

Okay, let me make this 100% clear since apparently, saying it once isn’t enough.

This is not about your fucking fandoms.

“But the character is racist!” I don’t fucking care, this post is about real people who pull this shit. Stop tagging it with fictional characters, it means you are not taking the post seriously.

It is incredibly fucking disrespectful, and I really shouldn’t have to be saying this more than once.

Coming from a fandom goer, y’all need to do way fucking better than this.

I don’t care that I’m being rude, I’m tired of seeing fellow Black Tumblr users alongside myself have their posts be made about fandoms they were never about, and YOU are much ruder for derailing a post about racism.

Realistic headcanon: Aro/ace