♥ShaSha & MoMo-Yuki♥

mud grave au: “… is all this… for me?”

“mhm! don’t you remember, it’s your birthday, too, Uncle Ed? i’m going to wish for you to get better. what are you gonna wish for? oh! quick - before the candles melt!”

happy birthday, berg! 

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Give me Shane "hates clubbing and bars" Hollander not minding Kingfisher in the afternoon but refusing to go at night. Give me Shane never understanding the slang (he's never online) and being overstimulated by drag brunch (it's so LOUD and nothing fits his diet even once he loosens it a little and brunch as a concept throws off his entire routine) and utterly bored by any TV show that isn't the latest game replay (is this reality TV? Is it a drama? He can't remember and he can't tell the difference but honestly he'd rather be watching hockey) and unable to remember the difference between Lady Gaga and Cher (he never listens to music anyway) and completely disinterested in changing his wardrobe (for fancy events he wears whatever his stylist tells him to but not anything adventurous, because he just wants to look acceptable not make a statement).

Give me Shane feeling alienated from gay culture the way he sometimes feels alienated from Japanese culture and being so frustrated that being himself, exactly as he is, still isn't good enough for anyone.

Give me a Shane Hollander who doesn't want to be "the gay hockey player" the same way he doesn't want to be "the Asian hockey player" but he'll suck it up because he's such an inspiration, don't you know how many kids look up to you? Don't you know how much it matters to them to see you out there loud and proud?

Give me Shane finally snapping at Ilya that clearly he's not "super gay" if he's so bad at it, because he's sick and tired of everyone being disappointed that he's not up on whatever the latest queer culture trend is and he does not want to be a "gay icon," he just wants to play hockey and love his husband, and he's not magically a different person now that everyone knows he's gay.

Give me Ilya reckoning with how coming out has only put more expectations on Shane's shoulders and noticing the roles Shane is always forced into - the Asian player, the gay player - and understanding a bit more why privacy seemed like a better guarantee of freedom to Shane than openness.

Made a desktop version for anyone interested! Thanks for all the love <3

This is gonna be my only contribution to Royed wedding week because I gotta work and it makes me tired and this piece which was initially just gonna be a sketchy lil thing took 7 hours because I’m a perfectionist and I regret trying to do backgrounds every time 🤡

This is actually a heaps timely prompt because I’m getting married in 5 months and my fiancée has been struggling to choose suit colours.

So this has been a fun research into my fav wedding suit colour schemes that I know he will never wear - so I force my fav fma boys to wear them instead ofc 🤵‍♂️🤵‍♂️

Attitudes Towards Sex

Knowing whether or not a person identifies as asexual, gray-asexual, demisexual, or anything else doesn’t tell you how they feel about having sex. It also doesn’t tell you anything about what they think about other people having sex!

There are a lot of words that are used to describe people’s attitudes towards sex. Sex-repulsed, averse, indifferent, and favorable are all used within the ace community to describe one’s own feelings about personally engaging in sex or sexual situations. These words can be very fluid—some people may use one word to describe themselves in one situation, and a different one in another.

Sex-positive, neutral, and negative are words used beyond just the ace community that communicate a person’s political leanings when it comes to sex. In short, they describe how people feel about other people having sex.

Learn more about one of these words by clicking the links below, or click the read more below to learn about all of them!

sex-repulsed | sex-averse | sex-indifferent | sex-favorable

sex-positive | sex-neutral | sex-negative

Additional reading:

Understanding Asexuality and Aromanticism: Sexual Activity and Consent by Aces & Aros

“Attitudes About Sex,” 2016 Ace Community Survey Summary Report, page 49

10 Things Sex Positivity Is Not by Miri Mogilevsky, Everyday Feminism

Sex Isn’t Always Good by Queenie

We Don’t Know if Asexuals Do or Don’t Want to Have Sex Because They Are All Queer Cats by Talia, Asexual Agenda