the day ppl realize that saying/doing problematic things due to trauma doesn’t mean their actions are completely justified is the day i die happy bro
YES it sucks that your trauma made you act in a harmful manner, NO that does not mean your actions are completely justified and undeserving of criticism
#if your trauma makes you act in a harmful manner towards yourself or others then it up to you to seek help it is NOT an excuse to keep#hurting people#i don’t get why ppl can’t understand that two things can be true at once- yes youre doing this from a place of trauma but it’s still#problematic and harmful#this is technically abt a specific situation but also a general statement cuz i see this happen a lot#ANYWAYS i hate people on the internet#rain rambles#rain rants
