Hey I saw your tips for drawing muslims but do you have any for writing them?
hello hello, thanks for the ask!
WRITING MUSLIM CHARACTERS
ā the āoppressed hijabiā trope
listen, most of us wear hijab because we want to. because we grew up around it. because itās as natural as wearing a shirt. please stop acting as though we all despise our hijab and our religion
ā the āmisunderstanding parentsā trope
why are all muslim parents emotionally or physically abusive in fiction? i personally have an amazing relationship with my parents. also not all muslim parents are trying to suck the joy out of their childrenās lives. theyāre just trying to keep their kids safe. also this trope usually gets pretty racist because the reason they donāt understand their child is because theyāre ānot from hereā and ādonāt get how things are doneā so yknow, avoid that.
ā the āabusive dadā trope
listen. iām fully aware that abusive parents are horrible and something that people should be made aware of, but when every muslim dad in fiction is abusive, thatās just islamophobia. just. give us good relationships with our family!!!
ā the āsilent momā trope
how come muslim mothers in fiction have no lines? have no voice? theyāre just silent products of a household there to cook and clean. what is that all about?? please. just stop
ā the āWhite Boy Romanceā trope
oh, all muslims know where iām going with this Do. Not. Have. A. Hijabi. Take. Off. Her. Hijab. For. A. White. Boy. please. donāt have her take it off, period. but especially not for romance. actually, if your narrative involves a muslim girl stepping away from her religion and taking off her hijab and realizing sheās happier this way, throw the whole story away. iām sorry, but if youāre not muslim, this isnāt something for you to write about. this is not your story to write, and writing it will be extremely islamophobic. avoid a typical romance. muslim romances do not occur the way western romances do. either you gotta be okay with that and write it properly, or you should do your best to avoid it altogether.
ā let them have friends!! let them have muslim friends!! especially if they live in an area that has a high muslim population.
ā let them talk about things that arenāt their religion. listen, my muslim friends and i talk about religion occasionally, but i can assure you, more of our conversation revolves around the hot boy of the week or about whatever shows weāre watching. and in terms of non-muslim friends, religion isnāt a point of tension. we respect and celebrate our differences, and thatās it. we talk about it sometimes, but we donāt argue about it
ā make it clear that weāre muslim without just saying it. have us take a step aside to pray. have a character compliment our hijabs. have us fast in ramadan (or make up fasts in the winter). have us eat halal meat. say bismillah before we eat. say alhamdulillah after sneezing or when weāre thankful. subhanallah when we see something beautiful
ā weāre not nuns. we find people attractive. we discuss it. itās not a big deal
ā make sure we have a personality that doesnāt revolve around our religion. yes, our religion can be a huge aspect of our identity and life, but no, itās not the only thing. make them obsessed with a show. give them nervous habits. what do they collect? are they introverted? you tell me!
ā avoid intimately close friendships with the opposite gender. casual acquaintances is fine, but this is something i would personally avoid writing if possible
ā research what is haram. iāll give you a basic list:
- meat that isnāt halal
- gelatin (unless itās plant gelatin or from a halal store)
- sex before or outside of marriage
- abuse towards your family (yes, this may come as a shock to some, but itās actually prohibited by islam)
do more research, of course, but this is a basic list.
i think that about covers it: donāt stereotype us, make sure itās noticeable that weāre muslims, give us personalities, and make sure weāre avoiding haram stuff
before anyone comes at me: iām aware that there are muslims who donāt follow the rules and who do haram things and who donāt like their religion and donāt have stable family relationships etc, etc. BUT when that is our only representation in media, itās islamophobic. show us good muslims, who like their religion, whose religion is their identity, who donāt feel like their religion is causing them to lose out. because we exist.
