Friendly Neighborhood Goddess of Spring

trigger warning:

this blog contains mentions and explicit descriptions of sexual activity, sexual and non sexual violence and hard kinks without mentions of consent or any form of content warnings. if this content is triggering to you, please do not proceed further.

about me:

i'm veronica. i'm an '02 baby and a queer, genderfluid, neurodivergent bratty switch.

i'm anti-capitalist, an intersectional feminist, atheist and solarpunk anarcho-communist.

my interests include: anime, art history, classical literature, writing, baking and music. 

do not interact:

🌸 if your blog is pro-misogyny/patriarchy and anti-feminist (fantasy included)

🌸 if you're a pro-ana/ed/thinspo blog

🌸 if your blog is pro-pedophilia, if you believe pedophilia is a sexuality or if you’re a map

🌸 if you're into bestiality (fantasy included)

🌸 if you're a feedee/feeder/feederism blog

🌸 if you're into incest (fantasy included)

🌸 if you're into raceplay and racial fetishization and use racial slurs

🌸 if you are christian, conservative, racist, right wing, homophobic, xenophobic, a terf, transphobic, ableist, sexist, an antivaxxer, a trump supporter, prolife or a bigot in anyway

🌸 if your blog is blank, does not have an age/birth year/age range in your bio or pinned post

🌸 if you're 40 or over

🌸 if you're a minor

general information:

🌸 i do not condone or endorse sexual activity of any form without voluntary consent from all involved parties.

🌸 everything i post here is fantasy. if being reenacted in real life, it should only be done safely and with consent.

🌸 as an SA victim, my blog is one of my forms of coping, take your judgement to someone who care.

🌸 this blog is a safe space for all, especially queer people and people of color. bigots, general bullies and shitty humans are not tolerated here.

🌸 i will not tolerate any harassment or bullying towards me so if you’re a dick to me, i will hurt your feelings.

🌸 my blog is not the place to enact your fantasies onto me because i will humiliate you so let's actively practice using the rules of consent instead of trying me.

🌸 my messages, submissions and replies are closed and i'm not opening them again.

🌸 mutuals can ask for my snapchat.

rules of interaction:

these rules apply to everyone who interacts with my blog:

🌸 be respectful, kind and considerate.

🌸 unless we’re mutuals, do not reblog my posts with your own additions.

🌸 do not interact with my posts to criticize or offer your personal opinions on my fantasies.

🌸 do not ask me about my SA. you are not owed my story and i will not be sharing it.

rules for asks:

🌸 do not send me sexual asks especially those containing fantasies that you have of me or of what you want to do to me. asking me about kinks is acceptable but everything else is off limits.

🌸 kindly stop asking for me to follow you, if i want to follow you, i will.

🌸 don't send asks about why i didn't respond to your ask.

faq:

q: do you have a dominant partner

a: no i do not and no you don’t have a chance.

q: are you single?

a: yes and i’m never gonna be interested in you.

q: can I send you money?

a: no because i don't know what your intentions are.

q: do you sell content?

a: no and i don’t intend to.

q: why don’t you post pics?

a: because i choose not to.

q: can we be friends?

a: no.

q: will you follow me?

a: no

q: do you play with persons online?

a: no and if i do, it's not going to be you.

q: what are your limits?

a: you don't need to know that because i do not interact sexually with my followers. non sexual limits are in this post.

q: do you have any other social media?

a: only personal accounts that i will not share with my tumblr followers

q: will you be my domme?

a: no

q: will you control my vibe/plug/toy?

a: no and stop sending me links to do so.

q: can i sext with you?

a: no.

q: do you have snap? can i add you?

a: yes i do. no you cannot.

main tags:

🌸 mine: all original text posts

🌸 gender neutral: non-gendered posts

🌸 rants and ramblings: random stuff

🌸 ask answered: all my asks

🌸 wlw: all my sapphic posts

🌸 domme thots: my domme posts

my kinks/fetishes:

🌸cnc

🌸 degradation

🌸 humiliation

🌸 dumbification

🌸 knife-play

🌸 gun-play

🌸 blood-play

🌸 impact-play

🌸 breath-play

🌸 fear-play

🌸 somnophilia

🌸 dacryphilia

🌸 quirofilia

🌸 breeding

🌸 edging

🌸 orgasm denial

🌸 bondage

🌸 shibari

🌸 free use

🌸 size kink

🌸 mommy kink

🌸 oral fixation

🌸 overstimulation

🌸 objectification

🌸 forced impregnation

🌸 praise

🌸 pet-play

🌸 exhibitionism

🌸 drugging

🌸 stalking

🌸 kidnapping

🌸 corruption

🌸 manipulation

🌸 gaslighting

🌸 ownership

🌸 blackmail

surprise, i'm back. okay maybe not. but hi. i am still living for those of you that have been asking.

to answer this question, i'm not sure if i am. this was an extremely hard year for me and i stopped posting because i needed to take some time to sort my shit out (two words: toxic situationship).

fortunately, i am doing better now and it only cost me several thousands of dollars in therapy. unfortunately, i am in my last year of uni so i have a lot of work and not a lot of time for tumblr.

i also have a very complicated relationship with kink right now where i haven't been engaging in it for a while for several reasons which is a large part of why i stepped away from the blog as well.

i love this blog and the community i have built here over the past 3 years and i hope to return but that is something that is still under consideration. and there should be a definitive answer posted soon.

when have i said that i don't support the trans community? i am a strong ally of the trans community not only because i am queer and genderfluid but also because i believe that everyone deserves to live their truth and be who they truly are inside.

i don't really post about politics etc because i am not american which i am tired of saying so i don't know much about what's going on past what i see on twitter etc and i don't want to spread misinformation or end up platforming someone problematic. as an ally and a member of the lgbt community, i fully support all my trans brothers and sisters but i just don't think i know enough about what's happening in the us to talk about it.

so my focus is trying to enact change in my country because it's even worse where i live. queer and trans persons have no rights at all. trans persons here have no options at all for transition, hormonal or physical. we can't get married. up until a few years ago, it was still illegal for two men to engage in sex with each other.

so while i do care about the problems facing the community in the us, i care more about the fact that i'm not allowed to exist where i'm from. that if i go to a pride rally, i could literally end up unemployed. queer people in the us aren't the only ones who are at risk. in fact, despite the pushback, they have more rights that queer persons in dozens of countries. more rights than i will probably ever have unless i leave where i'm from.

not to be all, it was very obvious but it was very obvious, men are very rarely going to come to a woman on the internet and ask her for advice on a situationship firstly. and secondly, women are often the ones feeling used in situationships due the fact that hookup culture has no benefits for women and just from the phrasing of the ask "see me as an actual human" that was most likely written by a woman.

not to say other genders don't experience things like that cause they do obviously, it's just a more common phenomenon amongst straight women. so it wasn't an assumption as much as it was an educated guess and either way, my advice would've been the same if it was a man. if you're just dick to her, act accordingly, don't catch feelings and if you want more, be with someone who wants more.

i am single by choice. mainly because i don't want a relationship rn. my last relationship ended almost 7 months ago and i lost so much of myself when i was with that person that rn, i'm just content rediscovering and reinventing myself and doing all the things i couldn't before. i absolutely love love love who i'm becoming now and i don't want to give up that path of freedom i'm on to date someone. and if i were to date someone rn it wouldn't be for the right reasons.

but also i don't think i'm really ready for a relationship because of my last one. my ex was toxic and abusive and very very cruel and i left that relationship with problems that i'm still trying to work through and heal from and i don't want to bring that into a new relationship. and i was in a semi serious situationship that ended really badly a few weeks ago which set back my healing a bit and kinda brought back a lot of my trust issues and i need to heal from that as well before i try to date anyone.