I Identify, Therefore I Am

ive waited all year to be able to reblog this

Anyway happy LGB pride month!!! Same-sex attracted people are wonderful and strong and deserve the world. Take a moment to remember the lesbians, gay men, and bisexuals who have fought for our rights throughout history. 💖💖💖🌈🌈🌈

#2, Brute?

I made the ugliest noise.

It’s not even March. It’s literally more than 6 months till the ides of March. Why.

TODAY

I! Am! So! Fucking! Sick! Of! Bi! Women! Not! Knowing! What! Lesbian! Means!!!

op is a whole ass man appropriating the word lesbian lmaoooo

Hey you know why it doesn’t cover the role of “trans women in second wave feminism”? Because they weren’t fucking there. And the “trans women” today are only there in the sense they demand women hand over everything we’ve built for ourselves because they say its theirs now and has always been.

Back then they were either gay men or weirdos with a cross dressing fetish. Neither were interested in helping women because both benefitted from women being seen as lesser

Very little has changed, then.

my advice for a haunting? real solid 100% foolproof Ghost Advice™? every time something creepy happens, turn in the direction of whatever it was, pause a moment, then slowly lick ur lips and say “…do that again” in ur most seductive voice. the ghost will feel very awkward and leave immediately. 

this is indispensible commentary

we all have that one book we read as a class in school that we REALLY liked…reblog this and tag what it is for me it’s either the outsiders or romeo and juliet

unpopular opinion but it’s cool if you don’t want to be in love

like, idk. I used to feel so compelled to make excuses for being single, whether it was self-deprecating jokes about myself or insisting that I was too busy for a relationship or making myself go out on uncomfortable and pointless dates just to make a show of trying to not be single. there’s such an expectation that if you’re single you should be actively working of changing that, and it’s like. nah. there are 9999 other things you can be focusing your time and energy on and if you don’t really feel like being in a relationship now or ever that’s cool.

One of the worst feelings in the world: I told him about those who hurt and abused me in the past. I just never thought he would become one of them.

Men don’t feel empathy when women reveal their vulnerability or past experiences of abuse. They see it as a great opportunity to use to get what they want. The lack of empathy for women and the willingness to use us as literal tools or objects are two of the most frightening things about men.

I once told a man about the abuse that happened to me. Like, I told him graphic details bc I thought I could trust him. Months later, I come to find out he used those graphic details and abused his girlfriend in the same way my ex did to me. Like, he literally copied some things. I know because some experiences were really specific and one does not just come up with those on his own…

Do not share your abuse with men, not even make therapists, because they will 1) use it as pornographic fantasy material 2) use it as inspiration to abuse the women in their lives 3) use it to target you for the same kind of abuse, because abuse victims present as very easy targets or 4) share the intimate details of your abuse in a scientific journal or online without your permission

I normally dislike any kind of insinuation that women need to adjust their behaviour to men, but this is actually just true and so important. It’s not as much about adjusting our behaviour as just learning who to trust and who not to. And men are not to be trusted, especially not with this. They are our oppressors and however lovely it would be to be able to trust them, we better assume, always, that we can’t.

you laugh but this was the plot of full metal alchemist

TRAs are burning books now? Fascinating.

Oh book buring. That makes you right. Right? I wonder what book it was.

It was probably a biology textbook