last night was so worth the pain and ouchies today. my regular rigger is so sweet and lovely, being tied by him is such a treat every time and always shows up the inexperience of the other people who've tied me. we did two partial suspensions, my 2nd time doing so ever. the first time was two weeks ago by a stranger, and i had a false alarm nerve compression scare plus a comically large bruise that is actually still very visible. this time my regular rigger did so many more wraps for load bearing, and was so much more responsive to my of-the-moment feedback, even if that feedback was just me whining or gasping or twitching a little. we tried chest suspension and only lasted a minute before the squeeze on my arms was too much, and he immediately let me down (slowly, gently). the leg suspension (which was what gave me trouble last time) felt sooo much safer, and it was so stimmy and fun to wiggle around in. also fun to get spanked and bitten in :) the good people of that rope studio really got an eyefull of me.. and afterwards i basically got about an hour of laying back on his chest while still tied, being toyed with :) i wore this swimming cozzie that he loves, it's literally just a normal one-piece cozzy but it makes him go feral every time! and he was really enjoying seeing how much he could torture me in it without breaking the rope studio's "no sex" rule hehe.. he loved it so much that at the end of the night he was like "if i bought you a mesh playsuit would you wear it" lol.. hopefully gonna go again together next week :)