my girlfriend is trans and now identifies as my boyfriend. Is it ok to still identify as gay? Bisexual just doesn't feel right, and i'm not attracted to other men besides him. He's cool with it, but im just,,,,, aaaaaaa
I mean... just because he’s okay with it doesn’t mean it’s still a good situation. If you still feel strongly that you’re a lesbian, you might want to re-examine your relationship with him. It’s not wrong to break up with someone because they’re they’re no longer a woman. There are a good number of trans men out there who would gladly date lesbians... but that doesn’t mean you’re compatible just because they want to.
Ultimately, it’s up to you what you do, but a lot of people are reeeeally uncomfortable with people who identify as lesbians while dating men, and understandably so. I’m not saying you have to break up with him, but you should definitely do some internal examination of your identities and relationship.















