Okay but what this potentially says about Elrond and the rest of the elves he was raised by is absolutely heartwarming. Because IRL humans need a certain amount of touch and affection and hugs and stuff. Itâs particularly important for things like brain development and while it varies from person to person itâs still more than what elf kids need
And it honestly looks like Aragorn is not only comfortable with this kind of physical affection, heâs used to it.Â
Which makes me think that instead of looking at young Aragorn, and asking him to be more like an elf to fit in with those around them. Elrond looked at this kid and and thought to himself âhow can I be more like what this child needs to thriveâÂ
Aragorn has been raised by Elves since he was only 2 years old. So if weâre going by Piagetâs theories of child development, that puts Aragorn, (who would have been called Estel at the time) in the pre-operational stage. Or somewhere thereabouts. So Elrond is raising this kid when heâs learning to talk. When heâs constantly asking âwhy?â about everything.Â
Young Estel would have grown up surrounded by elves and elf children and just by virtue of not being an elf, he probably would have had to deal with feeling less capable than those around him. He wouldnât have been able to do things like run across snow, and didnât have the ability to see as far as they did with their âelf eyesâ and I am imagining all manner of bruises and skinned knees as he tries to keep up anyway.Â
And it would take some getting used to his new surrounding, but  I canât stop picturing the first time tiny little Estel runs full tilt across the room and hugs Elrondâs leg.Â
And instead of scolding him or asking him to be more like an elf to fit in, Elrond consciously sets aside his own discomfort in the face of what this child needs to thrive. And if what Estel needs is hugs, then hugs he shall have.Â
Elrond picking up itty bitty Aragorn in a great big hug, and being just as uncomfortable about it, but hiding it well because this child was entrusted to his care and he will not let the boy grow up feeling unwanted or unloved.
And so Aragorn grew up surrounded by elves, but he grew up to be someone who naturally and unselfconsciously displays affection.Â
I think that speaks volumes about Elrond.Â
He raised this kid from age 2 to age 20 (so the majority of his formative years and well through his teens) and it was around then that Elrondâs own daughter gets back form visiting her grandmother Galadriel and meets this boy for the first time.
So I have NO IDEA what the various stages of child development would be for an elf, but I doubt their exactly the same.
Sure, Elrond might seem distant now, but there is no way Aragorn became the guy who is constantly overstepping elves personal boundaries to display affection without Elrond choosing to sacrifice his personal boundaries for the sake of a childâs well being.
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