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@proship-gardens
♡ The Miracle Garden ♡ | they/it | anti rq, pro endo, proship, anti harassment, pro para + anti contact, anti radqueer | bodily 19
Hello! We are the Miracle Garden and we're a bodily 19 year old mixed origins system! Our main is @gardensandmiracles!
We are FIRMLY anti radqueer. Radqueers do not interact with us or follow us. Other than this we have no DNI.
Dividers by @pixopix!
Anya is live and ready to show you everything. Watch her strip, dance, and perform exclusive shows just for you. Interact in real-time and make your fantasies come true.
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reading problematic fanfiction but shaking my head so random tumblr user who thinks thought crimes are real knows I don't condone it in real life
ignore my boaner 👍
fictional characters can't consent because they aren't real.. but YOU can consent to reading heavy themes, and you can withdraw consent by clicking the back button and stopping any time, it is your choice to read stories that include or exclude consent 👍
since i'm on a ramble-athon today:
happy pride month to trans people who still enjoy harry potter & are accused of siding with a literal terf or told that they're not welcome in the community for that reason alone, even though simply enjoying harry potter (fanworks, pre-owned books, pirated or pre-owned movies) doesn't make someone an evil terf & jkr supporter actually, giving her money and siding with her viewpoints & bigotry makes someone an evil terf & jkr supporter.
since opening that last can of worms went so well (/sarc), i'm opening another; you're not truly profic/proship if you're against people making fan-content of media with shitty creators.
"profiction" fundamentally means that you're for fiction existing without censorship, that creators have the right to create whatever fiction they please, no matter how taboo. all fiction has this right to exist. yes, even fiction with shitty creators. you can absolutely be against supporting those creators, but as soon as you try and tell people what fan-content is and isn't okay to create, what fandoms they are and aren't allowed to be in, what fiction is moral and immoral to enjoy — as soon as you try and police other people's creativity and fun, you lose the right to call yourself profic/proship.
fandom isn't activism, even if someone's in a fandom you hate.
since opening that last can of worms went so well (/sarc), i'm opening another; you're not truly profic/proship if you're against people making fan-content of media with shitty creators.
"profiction" fundamentally means that you're for fiction existing without censorship, that creators have the right to create whatever fiction they please, no matter how taboo. all fiction has this right to exist. yes, even fiction with shitty creators. you can absolutely be against supporting those creators, but as soon as you try and tell people what fan-content is and isn't okay to create, what fandoms they are and aren't allowed to be in, what fiction is moral and immoral to enjoy — as soon as you try and police other people's creativity and fun, you lose the right to call yourself profic/proship.
fandom isn't activism, even if someone's in a fandom you hate.
Anya is live and ready to show you everything. Watch her strip, dance, and perform exclusive shows just for you. Interact in real-time and make your fantasies come true.
Free to watch • No registration required • HD streaming
this probably isn't a can of worms i want to open, but shipping aro/ace characters is not indicative of arophobia/acephobia/queerphobia.
the "excuse" that aro/ace people can have romantic and/or sexual relationships is valid, of course, but a more important point — these characters are not real. there is no orientation of theirs to disrespect, because they do not exist. they're not harmed or offended by people shipping them. if someone writes an asexual character having sex, that doesn't mean they're acephobic. these characters literally do not exist, the situations and relationships they're in do not exist. it is truly not this massive injustice, or this massive act of bigotry against the community. people can write whatever they like with whatever characters they like.
would accurate representations of aro/ace people being in relationships be nice? yeah. should more people explore these relationships in fiction? in my opinion, yeah. but sometimes people just want to write or draw porn with a character they like, and that's completely fine, too. fandom isn't activism, and fanfiction especially isn't.
disclaimer: op is on both the aromatic and asexual spectrum. op is also extremely sex-repulsed, and in a relationship.
Vastly annoyed that I can't turn-off replies for this particular post. People are being insufferable, and I'm having to block far too many users. So, here are some reminders:
Fandom is not activism.
Enforcing rules on people's hobbies just makes you an asshole.
Fandom is not activism.
If you don't like seeing a character being shipped, scroll or block.
Fandom is not activism.
People can ship whatever they like. Yes, even things that upset you.
Fandom is not activism.
Curate your internet experience instead of being insufferable.
Fandom is not activism.
You can't gauge people's morals from what they ship.
FANDOM IS NOT ACTIVISM.
You can ship every character ever, actually.
Yes, even an asexual character.
Yes, even an aromantic character.
Yes, even an underage character.
Yes, even a nonhuman character.
Yes, even a character in a canon relationship.
Yes, even a character uninterested in dating.
Yes, even a canonically dead character.
Yes, even an "evil" character.
You can ship every character ever, there are no exceptions. If you don't like that — scroll and block the people who do! Or, if you can't manage the very simple act of blocking/scrolling, just gracefully stop participating in fandom spaces.
You can ship every character ever, actually.
Yes, even an asexual character.
Yes, even an aromantic character.
Yes, even an underage character.
Yes, even a nonhuman character.
Yes, even a character in a canon relationship.
Yes, even a character uninterested in dating.
Yes, even a canonically dead character.
Yes, even an "evil" character.
You can ship every character ever, there are no exceptions. If you don't like that — scroll and block the people who do! Or, if you can't manage the very simple act of blocking/scrolling, just gracefully stop participating in fandom spaces.
I don't really know how to say it without sounding like a pro-harassment weirdo but I'm so tired of being nice to antis. Blocking them and ignoring them isn't working. We need to start being more and more meaner to them. Start telling them to shut up and fuck off whenever they express their shitty ass opinions. Start calling them out directly. We gotta make it clear that they aren't welcome in fandom at all.
respectfully, this isn’t “harassment” on your part. it’s you standing up for yourself / your community, which is always a good thing.
if someone is rude and/or harassing you and you’re “rude” and/or “harassing” them back, then the only person who’s doing the harassment and being rude is them. what you do is stand up for yourself and fandom space.
no one should be nice and polite to their bullies.
fighting back against bullies =/= harassment.
I'm gonna be honest: some of y'all take fandom way too seriously, especially when it comes to "activism"
Here's the thing that people have been trying to say and people get pissed off about it: fandom is not activism. Fandom is just for fun.
Listen: FANDOM DOES NOT DICTATE WHETHER SOMEONE IS BIGOTED OR NOT.
If you're offended by someone "misrepresenting" a fictional character it is your job to block or just to scroll or move on. People seem to forget that they curate their own damn online experience.
For example: let's say someone is shipping an aroace character and you don't like that because you believe its "erasure". Your job is not to attack someone over what they're enjoying in fiction. (Also let's not forget by your own logic you're implying aroace people can't have any relationship ever but that's a can of worms for a different time.)
Or if someone ships a dynamic you aren't comfortable with because it's "morally wrong"? Block and move on
If anything ever in fandom makes you uncomfortable then just block that thing and move the fuck on with your life.
And if fandom bothers you this much then you remove yourself from said fandom.
Anya is live and ready to show you everything. Watch her strip, dance, and perform exclusive shows just for you. Interact in real-time and make your fantasies come true.
Free to watch • No registration required • HD streaming
"I don't like this thing so I'm gonna steer clear of it" -> totally fine, respectable, a normal response
"you should never write/draw this thing bcuz i find it disgusting/wrong and don't want to see it and you're a weirdo loser if you do" -> fuck you, piss off, who died and made you god of fiction
this probably isn't a can of worms i want to open, but shipping aro/ace characters is not indicative of arophobia/acephobia/queerphobia.
the "excuse" that aro/ace people can have romantic and/or sexual relationships is valid, of course, but a more important point — these characters are not real. there is no orientation of theirs to disrespect, because they do not exist. they're not harmed or offended by people shipping them. if someone writes an asexual character having sex, that doesn't mean they're acephobic. these characters literally do not exist, the situations and relationships they're in do not exist. it is truly not this massive injustice, or this massive act of bigotry against the community. people can write whatever they like with whatever characters they like.
would accurate representations of aro/ace people being in relationships be nice? yeah. should more people explore these relationships in fiction? in my opinion, yeah. but sometimes people just want to write or draw porn with a character they like, and that's completely fine, too. fandom isn't activism, and fanfiction especially isn't.
disclaimer: op is on both the aromatic and asexual spectrum. op is also extremely sex-repulsed, and in a relationship.
Can people stop conflating proship with darkship?
Proship is an ideology for anti harassment, ship and let ship, and anti censorship.
Darkship is shipping fiction that involves morally questionable and taboo things for dynamics or characters.
You can be proship without being a darkshipper.
Actually you SHOULD make problematic content. You SHOULD explore dark or taboo topics. You SHOULD have a space where you can cope with your traumas or explore sensitive topics in a way that doesn't hurt anyone.
