❁ this blog is mainly going to be focused on discourse surrounding fandom and shipping, including how harmful certain beliefs and behaviours held by antis can be.
❁ if antishippers would like to debate with us in good-faith (e.g. no name-calling and no baseless accusations), we'd be happy to. however, if antishippers interact with us with bad intentions, we will most likely block them.
❁ we're a system, so we may switch between we/us pronouns and i/me pronouns. we struggle to tell who is fronting at times, but the headmates most-likely to be running this blog are yuta, matti, and ajisai. we're also pro-endo systems and anti sysmeds and syscourse.
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before you follow:
❁ we're proship/profiction. these are both anti-censorship and anti-harassment stances regarding fiction. we are a firm believer of DLDR, SALS, and YKINMKBYKIOK.
❁ in addition to being anti-harassment over fiction, we're also anti-harassment in general. we firmly believe that harassment is never justified, and that the belief that it can be is only held by those who want an excuse to bully those around them.
❁ this blog is a safe space for darkshippers, selfshippers/yumeshippers, lolisho enjoyers, and any other perverts of the internet (/affectionate).
❁ we're a non-disordered paraphile. this blog is pro-paraphile and paraphile-safe. we are also strictly anti harmful contact and anti abuse.
❁ we're pro-kink, pro-fetish, and very sex-positive. do whatever you want as long as all parties can consent, do consent, and are informed.
❁ we're pro consang, meaning that we think that consenting adults can date relatives if they want to. we are not encouraging consang relationships, and we do not support incest abuse, we simply don't care what two consenting adults do.
❁ we're extremely anti-radqueer, anti-xenosatanism, and against harmful transids. we're also anti-radfem.
❁ we're bodily an adult, though our internal age can change depending on who's fronting.
❁ we're diagnosed autistic, and are mentally and physically disabled. we also believe that researched self-diagnosis is valid, since getting medically recognised is often difficult and/or expensive depending on where you live, and due to drs often being biased and bigoted.
❁ we have low-empathy and trouble expressing sympathy towards others, but we try to be kind to people who are kind to us. please be patient with us. people who believe that those with high-empathy are saints and that those with low-empathy are manipulative abusers need not interact, and can go and throw themselves in a well.
❁ we're queer, aroace-spec, under the trans/nonbinary umbrella, and in a long-term relationship, so please don't flirt with us! we use any pronouns apart from she/her. we also despise transmedicalists and people who believe in the concept of tme/tma. you are transphobic if you hold either of those two beliefs.
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Just because a kink/fetish makes you uncomfortable doesn't mean its bad.
Whatever happens between consenting adults behind closed doors is none of our damn business, as long as it doesn't involve kids or animals then who cares.
It could be the most offensive shit ever but as long as it's between consenting adults in a safe environment behind closed doors then I don't fucking care.
I have bigger issues than kink.
The whole point of kink roleplay is that it's not real and it stops whenever either party wants it to stop, it's safe, it's consensual and most importantly: it's none of your damn business.
Why the fuck is this disgusting bullshit on my dash?!
THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS CONSENTUAL INCEST YOU ARE JUST A DISGUSTING PREDATOR
God I HATE radqueers so fucking much you are fucking disgusting
Take that "proship" out of your username right now, you are not proship, proship is about fiction but you support abuse IN REAL LIFE. You are not proship and proshippers fucking hate your guts.
Get your ass out of our community and into a therapist office challenge
We’re both chronological adults and we have a healthy relationship; mutual respect, clear communication, honesty, trust, etc. Neither one of us is abusive or coercive and we have the freedom to leave.
Calling it inherently abusive is just blatantly incorrect. There are cases of people getting into consang relationships before they even know it and finding out by accident through tests.
Also, regardless, proship just means anti-harassment over fiction. You can hypothetically be proship and a bad person who supports abuse. There are bad people with all sorts of different opinions.
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Why the fuck is this disgusting bullshit on my dash?!
THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS CONSENTUAL INCEST YOU ARE JUST A DISGUSTING PREDATOR
God I HATE radqueers so fucking much you are fucking disgusting
Take that "proship" out of your username right now, you are not proship, proship is about fiction but you support abuse IN REAL LIFE. You are not proship and proshippers fucking hate your guts.
Get your ass out of our community and into a therapist office challenge
maybe instead of whining like a bitch, you block and move on, moron? it's a pretty basic concept, but i get why you wouldn't understand.
not a disgusting predator, nor a radqueer.
and i am proship. probably more than you, since i'm perfectly aware that my disgust for something doesn't equate to actual harm or abuse. but that concepts probably too advanced for someone who clearly likes to cry like a whiny piss-baby when they see something that hurts their fee-fees. pathetic.
we <3 blatant transphobia yayy. we <3 being hateful transphobes yayy. we <3 being so fucking loud and obnoxious with our transphobia yayy. sick fucks need to eject themselves outta the community.
not to be rude but why do you post one thing like “happy pride/happy disabled pride” then post nothing about it again. just pattern recognition that had me curious, don’t mean to offend
we spend most of our time on our main/personal blog, so when we reblog posts about pride, they go there and not here. but we like posting "happy pride" posts aimed at the proship community because we've got quite a few followers on this blog, so the posts travel more, and more people can be wished a happy pride
Reblogging this again bc people in the notes are asking a lot of "Am I included? Am I disabled if I have x?" and I just wanted to add the flag here to show people who the pride month is for.
This is the new flag, the old one was more vivid and in a z shape, but it's been made more neutral to be inclusive of people with seizures or sensory issues.
Each stripe represents a different aspect of disability:
Red: Physical disabilities
Yellow: Cognitive & intellectual disabilities
White: (And this is the key one I think) Invisible AND undiagnosed disabilities
Blue: Mental illnesses
Green: Sensory disabilities
If you're autistic or have ADHD? this is your pride month. If you have a mental illness, it's your pride month. If you're hard of hearing, this is your pride month. If you have an autoimmune disorder, this is your pride month. If you are not diagnosed with anything but you know something is up with you: THIS IS STILL YOUR PRIDE MONTH.
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happy disability pride month to all littles who are that way due to trauma or neurodivergence
happy disability pride month to all littles in CDD systems
happy disability pride month to littles who are infantilised against their will
happy disability pride month to littles who are treated as lesser than due to not being able to do "big" things, or who find their regression disabling
happy disability pride month to littles who are unable to engage in their littlespace or the little community how they want, due to disability
I think it's important to recognize that the concept of a "little" means different things to different systems.
- Some littles are less responsible and emotionally mature than adults, and some are equally responsible and emotionally mature.
- Some littles don't have access to adult memories and knowledge, and some do.
- Some littles formed in childhood, and some formed later in life.
- Some littles age or emotionally mature over time, and some don't.
- Some littles need to be sequestered away with other littles, and some can socialize with adults both in and out of the system.
- Some littles have childlike interests and enjoy media and hobbies associated with kids, and others have broader tastes in activities.
- Some littles need to be kept away from potentially mature content, and others are fine with seeing violence, swearing, sexuality, etc. in media.
- Some littles need to be kept off of social media for their own wellbeing, and some can safely use and enjoy social media.
- Some littles can't do certain tasks adult members can do (driving a car, cooking, managing money and doing taxes) and some can.
- Some littles need to be frequently supervised and have decisions made for them by older members of the system, and some don't need special supervision or guidance at all.
- Some littles are completely asexual and may find exposure to sexuality distressing, and some have sex drives and can consent to sexual activities.
Any discourse questioning "can littles do X?" should be answered with "it depends on the little". Individual systems should be trusted to make decisions that work for them. Judgment calls can be made by the little in question if they have that level of maturity, or by older members of the system if they need that kind of help. But I don't think those decisions should be enforced by people who aren't members of that system. (With the exception of the specific people involved in a sexual activity, who can give or rescind their own consent.)
In my opinion rules in online environments should accommodate littles, not make assumptions and box them in. For example, little-specific Discord channels - great! Littles are ONLY allowed to use little-specific Discord channels - not so great.
Ultimately we should keep in mind that while littles have their identified age in common, they may differ from one another in other ways. When it comes down to it, how things work for one system will not be how they work for everyone.
Hey so if I decided to say, "I'm homophobia affected because I'm a lesbian. These bisexual people are homophobia exempt." And then started saying stuff about "we should murder all homophobia exempt people!" While very clearly talking about bisexuals, that would be bad and detestable, right?
Then when bisexuals spoke up and were like "hey we actually do experience homophobia because we are often perceived as queer. Also I'm really uncomfortable with how I'm being treated in my own community" but I responded by spouting statistics about corrective rape and violence against lesbians (despite the fact they never denied the suffering of lesbians), while ignoring their actual objection, we could agree that would be a horrible and biphobic thing to do?
sometimes people experiencing psychosis and/or mania will come up to you on the street and talk in confusing or upsetting ways. your job is to either have a regular human-to-human conversation with that person or politely leave. your job is not to call 911. do not call 911. you might kill that person if you call 911.
I don't even have the energy to screenshot and respond to your tags- what the actual fuck is wrong with you? "the cops are scared and rightfully so" "mental health calls are the scariest for cops" OH so this isn't about the safety of psychotic & manic people this is about piggy feelings?
and no, actually, this is not USA specific and no, actually, people from other countries should not ignore this post. police violence and sanism weren't invented in the US and they are certainly not unique to here. if you (or anyone) thinks that this bullshit doesn't happen elsewhere then you are not listening.
This is legitimately useful reframing. A while ago I started replacing the word "cop" in my vocabulary with "a man with a gun." It really puts things into perspective.
This homeless person is making me uncomfortable. Should I call [a man with a gun]?
My neighbor is having a loud party. Should I get [a man with a gun] involved?
There are some teenagers skateboarding. Do you think [a man with a gun] would get rid of them for me?
It makes it very clear what you're saying. I can call a man with a gun to threaten or hurt someone mildly inconveniencing me. You're not calling the cops, you're calling A MAN WITH A GUN into a situation that does not warrant a firearm handled by a volatile lunatic who will not be held accountable for his actions.
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