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Me, finishing my cocktail: “Man, I should make that post. Really kick the hornet’s nest.”
Pip: “You should. Drinky post time!”
Me: “It’s gonna make people really mad.”
Pip: “Time to hurt some 🎶feeeeeeeliiiiiings🎵~!”
They gotta stop aging Robin up I swear to god. He’s like fully an adult man half the time and it fucking sucks. Make him recognizably a child or don’t bother including him at all. “But it makes people uncomfortable” yeah dude! Because it is! You’re never going to make it okay so make it interesting! Make it mean something! Like Robin is fully just a grooming story. I don’t mean sexually but it’s a narrative about a man convincing himself that his relationship with a kid is so special and unique that the normal boundaries between child and adult can be suspended, that the child’s circumstances and capabilities and needs are so extraordinary that they are rendered a kind of un-child, and that the scale of their eagerness and want counts as consent. Robin’s already traumatized, so what is there to lose?
Everyone wants Batman to be morally complicated so they make him a huge douchebag for no reason but flinch away from the actual parts of his character that are really troubling. The “is it wrong to have Robin?” question is always brought up and then neatly solved in a way that absolves Batman. But like. One of Batman’s most consistent character traits is that he’s able to convince himself of anything no matter how stupid.
Batman is a hyper-intelligent, hyper-powerful Sherlock Holmes character piloted by the ghost of a lonely child. He’s a genius who uses his intelligence to justify acting upon the emotional impulses of an 8 year old with horrific trauma and unmet needs. He uses children for his own emotional gratification and convinces himself that, while it might not be right, it’s not wrong enough to stop doing it.
And, well, many such cases!
Honestly I think the cognitive dissonance of like a 9 a year old Robin does so much more to establish Bruce as a psychologically complicated and morally gray character than any amount of the pointless assholery people just keep piling on to his personality.
#Batman is a grown man who is so desperate to believe that what he went through as a child was survivable #that he will go through multiple sidekicks the way people go through outdoor cats. #he loves his family so much and he cannot understand that he allows them access to more danger than they ever would have been in otherwise. #he is a metaphor for the positive ways trauma can encourage people to help others #but also for the ways people will project on others and try to live vicariously through them! #batman is trying to exert control over childhood as a concept! he is making child soldiers to prove he could have done more than he did! #and over and over again the universe tries to tell him that he can’t. and so he gets another sidekick. #because surely THIS time the small traumatized child will have the strength and will and power of an adult. #and then Bruce can finally sleep easy knowing if he’d only been a stronger boy he could have saved his parents.
is your robin post for all robins or specifically the first robin? if you have more nuance for the different robins i would love to hear it 👀
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Oh all Robins yeah. There’s a different justification for each one and in a way the more rock-solid and defensible they get the more egregious it becomes imho. “He was going to do it on his own” “he was headed down a hopeless path to crime and needed the structure and discipline of Robin” “he was literally asking for it” “making him Robin is the only way to keep him from becoming a supervillain”. Every time there is a new justification for why a billionaire with every resource can only help a child by entering into a dangerous and bizarre kind of relationship with him that is repeatedly shown to be profoundly psychologically damaging (…for the kids).
And every time the narrative bends over backwards to assure us that Bruce never actually makes the wrong decision. That he’s never actually being selfish. That Robins just sort of happen to him as an act of God that has little to with Bruce’s wants. That these boys really are just that special, their circumstances are that exceptional, that Robin really is the best option for them. And every time they get hurt or die or are tragically, profoundly warped by their proximity to Batman, well…? We flirt with the notion of remorse and regret for a while. Then it’s time for a new boy (it’s different this time! I promise! Unavoidable!).
Don’t get me wrong—I love the Robins. I think they are the best part of the Batman story and don’t want them to be eliminated. I understand that they are wish fulfillment/power fantasies for children and that 90 year old ongoing comics can’t actually come to meaningful, lasting character resolutions. But we’ve been telling serious standalone “adult” Batman stories for fully half that time and I don’t think we’ve ever properly grappled with Robin. The elements are all there. It comes up, a little bit, here and there, but only so that it can be summarily dismissed.
And it’s hard, you know—it’s difficult to tell a story about grooming because people can’t or won’t recognize it unless there is literal molestation happening. But if there IS literal molestation, well, now, the story is lurid! Provocative! Edgy—too edgy! The sexual act eclipses the emotional reality and flattens character motivations and dynamics into something familiar and cliché. Something safely true crime that disinvites empathy. I don’t think Bruce is a pedophile but I don’t think a pedophile Bruce Wayne would look any different. The nature of the exploitation would differ, obviously, but the dynamics and rationale and downstream effects would be basically the same.
(I haven’t counted Steph here even though she’s my favorite Robin because Batman was so over the top indefensibly, cartoonishly, intentionally evil about her that it makes his character really boring and everybody hated it lol. I would retcon that storyline and revisit Steph-as-Robin with more nuance.)
It is kind of crazy how often Batman stories raise the question of “is Robin ethical?” and ultimately come to the conclusion that Robin isn’t really a child. His trauma and experiences have transformed him into something else, something that looks like a child but isn’t, or only is sometimes. It’s no longer necessary or even possible to treat him as though he is a real child. Some fundamental essence of purity has been lost; further trauma and harm may heaped on the Un-Child indefinitely.
Obviously Robin is about punching clowns and telepathic gorillas, so whatever. But it betrays certain attitudes about children that are really pervasive in our culture—that children are definitionally innocent, and that innocence is a product they produce and perform for adult consumption. If that innocence is lost, damaged, or imperfect, their value is lessened and the need to protect them becomes a need to protect other children from the contamination they might spread. The Un-Child becomes a sort of contagion, a threat to the harvest, who is conditionally allowed access to childhood if they can convincingly pretend at innocence.
the thing is that misogyny is actually gender affirming for men and fundamentally always will as long as men and women are considered to be real categories

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Children are born into a state of implicit debt.
Good parents forgive this debt. Bad parents expect it to be repaid, one way or another. The accepted currencies are varied and cryptic and might be mostly innocuous or they might be horrifically criminal.
Many families don’t realize that there is a debt until the child defaults on it somehow. That could be for any reason—the child simply fails to deliver on the parental investment by not adequately being the child they paid for.
“Inspiration porn” is a disability term, but I’m using it here because it’s appropriately provocative, and because the state of being a child is functionally a disability. A child who fails to be life-affirming and inspirational and to perform heartwarming innocence is breaking a contract, and adults are no longer obligated to uphold their own end and nurture the child. A child is a resource from which inspiration porn can be mined, or it is a kind of brood parasite.
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"Racialised" is much better than PoC but I've been leaning a lot on the concept of racial markedness. Because that allows us to make statements like "the name Jamal is racially marked in USA". Rather than saying something like "Jamal is a PoC name", a nonsense statement, saying it's racially marked in USA allows us to contrast with societies like Albania or the Arab countries where the name Jamal is ordinary, thus unmarked.
It's a concept I've kind of imported from linguistic analysis; saying a speech pattern is more or less marked does not really allow us to avoid the subject of who's doing the marking. A statement like "womens' speech is more marked in Lakota" necessitates that we understand that it's the Lakota who are marking womens' speech. A foreigner can't tell the difference and probably doesn't understand why it would thus be weird to see a man using speech patterns associated with women, in the same way an Albanian wouldn't understand why USA people would think Jamal is a Black name.
You! You get it. In my view, if someone is saying "racialised" or "racially marked" without acknowledgement of context, they are doing it in a way that is gramatically incorrect.
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scone butch... The person for all your pastry and lesbian needs
I hate making scones but am an absolute slut for them so this is a partner I’m now seeking ardently. I will be your clotted cream princess
anyone else notice how when "digital assistants" were just supposed to do specific tasks when you asked for them we had Alexa and Siri and Cortana, but now that they're being marketed as smart enough to take actions and make decisions on their own they've got names like Claude and Devin
Do you have any advice or any recommendations on what to read or listen to re: autism and sexuality? a realisation that i’m autistic is making me spiral that i maybe falsely identified my attraction to women and it’s just strong friendships and aesthetic attraction vs attraction to men which is just disgust with patriarchy
hi anon! so first and foremost, i think it's really common for us to overthink our sexualities in an attempt to, like, ontologize them. we imagine that there's a "true" sexuality buried beneath all our experiences and the social expectations placed on us, and if we don't find it, we've failed. this is false, because sexuality is just as constructed & contingent as gender. i think "truth' and "falsehood" is a really wrongheaded way of looking at sexuality (this isn't to shame you, it's an observation i've made about my own past relationships to sexuality, too). sexuality should be about pleasure, intention, fulfillment, and relationality - how do you describe the relationships you want to have, the intimacies you're seeking, the communities you want to align myself with? if you want to build strong, intimate relationships with women, and are not interested in doing so with men, to me, that is more than enough of a reason to be a lesbian. you don't need to "what if" or overthink it. you can just be a lesbian. yep, that's my advice. you can be a lesbian.
rewatching s1 for like the 100th time--at what point does all the brilliant animal sight gag stuff (eg the croc wearing crocs) get added? is it like, we need to have a croc wearing crocs, where can we fit this in? or do you start out by needing someone to guard the food and say let's do a crocodile--hey, he should wear crocs? or some kind of total afterthought, or something else entirely? thanks. love the show, my favorite of all time.
Hello! I am going to answer your question, and then I am going to talk a little bit about GENDER IN COMEDY, because this is my tumblr and I can talk about whatever I want!
The vast vast vast majority of the animal jokes on BoJack Horseman (specifically the visual gags) come from our brilliant supervising director Mike Hollingsworth (stufffedanimals on tumblr) and his team. Occasionally, we’ll write a joke like that into the script but I can promise you that your top ten favorite animal gags of the season came from the art and animation side of the show, not the writers room. Usually it happens more the second way you described— to take a couple examples from season 2, “Okay, we need to fill this hospital waiting room, what kind of animals would be in here?” or “Okay, we need some extras for this studio backlot, what would they be wearing?”
I don’t know for sure, but I would guess that the croc wearing crocs came from our head designer lisahanawalt. Lisa is in charge of all the character designs, so most of the clothing you see on the show comes straight from her brain. (One of the many things I love about working with Lisa is that T-Shirts With Dumb Things Written On Them sits squarely in the center of our Venn diagram of interests.)
NOW, it struck me that you referred to the craft services crocodile as a “he” in your question. The character, voiced by kulap Vilaysack, is a woman.
It’s possible that that was just a typo on your part, but I’m going to assume that it wasn’t because it helps me pivot into something I’ve been thinking about a lot over the last year, which is the tendency for comedy writers, and audiences, and writers, and audiences (because it’s a cycle) to view comedy characters as inherently male, unless there is something specifically female about them. (I would guess this is mostly a problem for male comedy writers and audiences, but not exclusively.)
Here’s an example from my own life: In one of the episodes from the first season (I think it’s 109), our storyboard artists drew a gag where a big droopy dog is standing on a street corner next to a businessman and the wind from a passing car blows the dog’s tongue and slobber onto the man’s face. When Lisa designed the characters she made both the dog and the businessperson women.
My first gut reaction to the designs was, “This feels weird.” I said to Lisa, “I feel like these characters should be guys.” She said, “Why?” I thought about it for a little bit, realized I didn’t have a good reason, and went back to her and said, “You’re right, let’s make them ladies.”
I am embarrassed to admit this conversation has happened between Lisa and me multiple times, about multiple characters.
The thinking comes from a place that the cleanest version of a joke has as few pieces as possible. For the dog joke, you have the thing where the tongue slobbers all over the businessperson, but if you also have a thing where both of them ladies, then that’s an additional thing and it muddies up the joke. The audience will think, “Why are those characters female? Is that part of the joke?” The underlying assumption there is that the default mode for any character is male, so to make the characters female is an additional detail on top of that. In case I’m not being a hundred percent clear, this thinking is stupid and wrong and self-perpetuating unless you actively work against it, and I’m proud to say I mostly don’t think this way anymore. Sometimes I still do, because this kind of stuff is baked into us by years of consuming media, but usually I’m able (with some help) to take a step back and not think this way, and one of the things I love about working with Lisa is she challenges these instincts in me.
I feel like I can confidently say that this isn’t just a me problem though— this kind of thing is everywhere. The LEGO Movie was my favorite movie of 2014, but it strikes me that the main character was male, because I feel like in our current culture, he HAD to be. The whole point of Emmett is that he’s the most boring average person in the world. It’s impossible to imagine a female character playing that role, because according to our pop culture, if she’s female she’s already SOMEthing, because she’s not male. The baseline is male. The average person is male.
You can see this all over but it’s weirdly prevalent in children’s entertainment. Why are almost all of the muppets dudes, except for Miss Piggy, who’s a parody of femininity? Why do all of the Despicable Me minions, genderless blobs, have boy names? I love the story (which I read on Wikipedia) that when the director of The Brave Little Toaster cast a woman to play the toaster, one of the guys on the crew was so mad he stormed out of the room. Because he thought the toaster was a man. A TOASTER. The character is a toaster.
I try to think about that when writing new characters— is there anything inherently gendered about what this character is doing? Or is it a toaster?
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The thing about AI and writing is like I do think part of the point is that it's mine? So I'm not particularly discouraged. I do think I can do a better job than the current technology, but that won't last forever. I do think I am a very talented writer so it will take a while. But I still think other people have written much better things than I have or probably ever will. And it's like if I am not discouraged (and in fact encouraged) by that, then why am I supposed to be discouraged by the machine? I guess I have become more sympathetic to the view that part of what it is to be the thing I'm making is to be the result of a process of selection by me. You could prompt exactly what I'm saying but it's like monkeys writing Shakespeare odds. It would take a while. I just don't see the literary apocalypse, but that may just be because I'm an amateur. If my livelihood depended on the taste and discernment of the reading public, I would probably be more upset, but also I would probably be more mad about everything in my life anyway.
The thing is that I think the fact that it will be mine is a reason for me to do it, but I don't think it's a reason to appreciate it. It seems a bit to circular. There's an asymmetry here.

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Reading about your experiences having sex while high reminds me of the last time I did acid with my partner. It was super strong acid so we were out of our minds and started out cuddling and silently clutching at each other. He started grinding against me and I immediately fell into it, and the moment he actually entered me was so magical because it was like the sun coming out from behind the clouds. I can't explain it. I was so out of it that maybe the sun actually did just come out and I didn't realise, but it was like the whole room lit up. I practically heard an angel chorus at that moment. The two of us grinned at each other and then burst into tears because it was such a romantic moment. We then proceeded to fuck and cry non-stop for 3 hours
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