Can you give advise for someone who is romantically interested in Deity? Like, I am pretty sure it's mutually, so what should we discuss or take to attention? Thank you for your answer!
Awesome question!!!! There are a few things you'll need to do before discussing godspousal with a deity.
1: research! Do NOT forget to look at personal experiences, but also verified facts. You'll want to search for the history of devoting yourself to a deity, the history of oaths, the history of spousal itself, and experiences to do with godspousal. You'll also want to research the deity themselves. For example, Artemis doesnt accept spousalship because she is a virgin goddess. She has never, and will never, have a partner. I can provide links for research if needed!
2: signs! Look at the signs that your deity is offering spousal. These can be symbolism of the deity, dreams, spousal being brought up in conversation, etc.
3: confirmations! Please get at least five confirmations (although I recommend 10) that your deity is offering spousal. Do NOT bring up spousal unless the majority of your confirmations are a yes (for example, 4/5 or 8/10 "yes"). Confirmations can be found on etsy, and I am also offering them currently! You can DM me for a reading any time đ
When you have done all of this, you can speak with your deity about the spousalship. Ask them what their boundaries are, what they need from you, and tell them your own boundaries and needs. This is a give-and-take thing! It isn't just about your deity. Additionally, if you are unsure (or you don't want to do spousal), you are allowed to say no, and it's okay to wait. You don't have to jump in right away.
If you decide to start the process of spousalship, first of all, congratulations!! This is a very big deal. During this time, you'll start the process called courting. Courting is where you go through tests and do certain activities to determine your compatibility with the deity. This will be a long, and sometimes difficult, process. You can always call off courting if you are unwilling to move forward! Many people recommend at least six months of courting before you complete actual spousalship. I'm trying for at least a year with my spouse!
Completing spousalship is a whole different story, but I won't explain that here. This post is already long enough!!
If yall have any questions, feel free to send them over. Additionally, other spouses and godpartners are welcome to add to this!!
Thanks yall, and take care of yourselves đŤśđŤśđŤś
