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“Do you think it’s possible to love two people at the same time?” Professor Marston and the Wonder Women, dir. Angela Robinson (2017)
Hey! I'm been thinking that maybe I'm polya.. Do you have any suggestions for someone who is new to the community? Thanks! - polycurious anon
That’s exciting! I sure do have some suggestions: Read as much as you can, talk/listen, learn, contemplate!
Books:
More Than Two (quickly became my polyamory bible)
The Jealousy Workbook (does what it says on the tin)
Stepping off the Relationship Escalator (exploration of people’s real-life experiences in unconventional relationships)
Websites:
More Than Two (yes, related to the book – has a lot of fantastic pages)
Tumblr…there are many awesome people with fresh takes on relationships here. Search the #polyamory tag.
Facebook groups – there are groups with lots of people sharing and seeking advice on their relationships; be forewarned if you’re in the polyamory closet that if you see a group marked Private, that does not mean people outside the group can’t tell you’re in it! It only means they can’t see your posts. Your friends can still see that you’re in the group.
OKCupid is a site a lot of poly people use for dating. I met one of my partners on there! One word of warning: if you’re new to the poly dating scene, and especially if you’re female, it’s likely that any shady characters on your local scene will be among the first you hear from. I don’t say that to scare you off. You may also meet some awesome people right away. Just be aware that people who have worn out their welcome with others in the community are always keeping their eyes out for newbies. Just be wary and mindful of that fact when you start dating, and trust your gut!
IRL:
If you don’t know poly people in your area, you can check to see if there’s a local group on meetup.com. Same cautionary note about meeting folks as with online dating. :)
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Unicorn Hunting
I was going to delve into the idea of a Unicorn and the hunting culture, but my research showed that some folks have already addressed this in far greater ways than I would have here. So if you ever considered looking for a Unicorn, or being a Unicorn, or don’t know the term please give this place a look over. Takes about 15 minutes to read the whole site. You will be a better human being for it.
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The Polyam Code
There is no jealousy, there is compersion.
There is no ignorance, there is communication.
There is no dishonesty, there is openness.
There is no fear, there is love.
Yes, I agree this is the goal, but it is also important to admit we are human, and it is not always going to be smooth sailing.
Yeah, I probably shouldn’t have hidden that in the tags on the original post.
Original tags: #polyamory #star wars #jedi code #we are all great big nerds #ideals to strive for #and they are ideals #everyone messes up #but we move forward and we try to do better
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2018 is the Year of Polyamory
I hope all of you polyamorous people find fellow polyamorous people you can relate to and hang out with. I hope all of you polyamorous people find partners that love you, understand you and accept you. I hope no bigoted people shame you for being polyam or deny your existence and identity. If anyone does, they didn’t deserve your time anyway and they are wrong. I hope you grow strong to combat and withstand bigotry against polyamory. If you haven’t come out to your family as polyamorous yet and you want to come out to them this year, I wish you to be safe and accepted. I hope with all of my heart and soul that you find an sense of community and comfortability in your identity. 2018 will be your year, I’ll never stop rooting for you. Your polyamorous self deserves the best, and your identity is authentically you. 💙💛 π ❤️🖤
Polyamory is…
falling out of bed
grabbing a shirt off the ground
realising it isn’t your’s
dropping it and grabbing another
realizing this still isn’t your shirt, but hey, they’re about the same size so you pull it on anyway.
Choosing to be monogamous to a polyamorous wife! Does this make me less of a man?
First I want to address the idea of “less of a man”. This is an outdated idea that certain things make you a man and certain things dont. If we want to still use the terminology, the only thing that makes you less of a man is changing what you feel is right for you because of outside effects. Ypu and your partner determine what is best for yourselves, and the coupling by discussion and understanding.
If you dont want to be poly and date other people, that is a fine choice for yourself. Whatever you need to feel secure and okay with yourself. Dont force something that isnt you.
For your partner, if they feel the need to be poly it is healthy to discuss and work into that. To deny them that part of them would build resentment and result in a poor relationship. If you have not already, I suggest More Than Two: A practical guide to polyamoury. It has couples activites and discusses at length compersion and reassurances.
Make sure you vocalize your needs to feel secure and loved. Maybe a cuddle before they go out on a date. Making sure you get enough time with your partner to ensure you feel loved.
There is no “less of a man”. Be okay with who you are, whatever that is.
Polyamory isn’t all about sex. Sure, sex is great but it’s about the little things. Like remembering what they get on their sub or that they like their shirts hung to dry. It’s understanding that it’s not all about you anymore. It’s about the nights at home crafting or redecorating the house. Knowing how everyone likes their eggs cooked and realizing that sometimes we all need alone time. It’s the little things that keep your relationship strong, not the sex.

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Hi do you have any posts about how to support a partner through a breakup? My partner of 2 years who I live with just broke up with her boyfriend of 1 year and is very upset. I am doing the regular stuff like being there to listen, doing stuff to distract, but do you have any other advice? Thanks!
The best way to support your partner is by being there when they need you. Asking them if you can get them anything. Dont ask them if they are okay, instead reaffirm that you are here if they need anything. Regonize their emotions and be on alert for destructive behavior. Time will allow them to move on, but your support will make that time much easier.
Poly advice one-liner: Expect the unexpected. Polyamory may be a particularly challenging relationship style for people who love predictability. Of course, even monogamous relationships can involve curveballs. But in polyamory, you’ll get more of them, pretty much guaranteed. If you’re going to try this, be ready for that. Sometimes, people who love predictability will try to armor themselves in advance – inoculate against change. But in reality, change is inevitable.
For anyone considering trying polyamory, consider this: the way you think it will go is almost certainly not how it will go. That might happen right away. Or maybe it will start out going the way you think it will; given enough time, something will take you out of your comfort zone. That’s normal and okay! Whether polyamory is right for you doesn’t depend on whether it changes your love life. Whether it’s right for you is about whether the challenges it brings are ones that you want to take on. For some people, they are. For others, they aren’t. There isn’t one choice that’s inherently better than the other; it’s just about finding the best fit for you.
Communication
“When we talk about communication in polyamory, we’re actually talking about a very specific type of communication: speaking the truth about ourselves, our needs and our boundaries with honesty and precision, and listening with grace when our partners speak of themselves, their needs and their boundaries. This kind of communication isn’t really about words. It’s about vulnerability, self-knowledge, integrity, empathy, compassion and a whole lot of other things.”
So hard!
Cast introductions
I love our family. We are a very non traditional family. We put Modern Family to shame. All names have been changed to protect the innocent….
For the purpose of this blog, I go by Zelda. I’m a bisexual polyamorous woman. I’ve been married to my husband, Wyatt, since God was a child. Wyatt is straight and also poly. Our oldest daughter, Lyra, is bisexual and dating Mara. Our son, Blaise, is asexual and dating no one at present.
Wyatt and I have been poly for a couple of years. About 2 years ago, we met and fell in love with another couple. Willow is pansexual and has been married to Sirius for slightly less long as Wyatt and me. Willow and Sirius have 2 kids as well. Their oldest, Oscar, is the same age and personality as our son. Their daughter, Ginny, is pretty awesome too.
We have what Wyatt likes to call kitchen table poly. Everyone is in the know (we told Lyra, Mara, and Blaise and Ginny figured it out. We’re not entirely sure about Oscar, but we’re not hiding anything). We often have dinner the four of us, and the girls call our partners their step parents.
So now, dear reader, you’re caught up on our cast of characters.
Give it up for Zelda, everyone
“Do you think it’s possible to love two people at the same time?” Professor Marston & the Wonder Women, dir. Angela Robinson (2017)
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Polyamory is…
…being there for each other in times of stress and heartache. With any relationship, you go through hard times. I have found that with the extra partners in a polyamorous relationship, you have a bigger network of support full of love, friendship and family.
It hurts when you watch one of your partners going through a rough time, but in the end, we will get through these times as a family…stronger and together.
Hiya! So I am currently in my first poly relationship with two amazing guys (They are monogamous but okay with me dating the other) there are a lot of kinks and awkward little things that I’m not use to... any tips?
With my own experience since one of my partners is monogamous is to do a check in and see how things are going on their end. What aspects are they comfortable with, what makes them jealous, ect. Sometimes there are easy solutions and other times it make take a few conversations to sort things out.
-Cleo