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Singular they has been in use for hundreds of years but now that itâs associated with the LGBT community thereâs this sudden objection to it that people donât want to admit isnât some minor gripe over grammarâŚÂ âoh it just canât be used that wayâ Yes it can and youâre having an ideological argument with a dictionary that you canât win to justify disrespecting someoneâs pronouns.Â
Writers who used singular they: Chaucer, Shakespeare, like, many many others.
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what men on the internet do not think misogyny is:
sexually harassing women on the street
using gendered slurs that specifically target women or femininity
sex shaming women
policing womenâs bodies and appearances
downplaying the existence of rape culture or shaming rape survivors
targeting women on the internet who speak up for womenâs rights
what men on the internet do think misogyny is:
saying the words âi hate womenâ in that exact order and literally nothing else
Someone recently asked the question, âWhat is the difference between a person who finds love easily and a person who finds it difficult to make loving connections?â This is a question I think I can offer some insight on (at least for people who share most of my privileges), because in my own life I have gone from a person who found love impossible to a person who finds opportunities for love and connection all around me. During that transition, I learned that many of the things I assumed about folks who find love easilyâthat theyâre rich, that theyâre handsome, that theyâre famousâarenât true.
People have a right to self-identify, but the reason that more people donât feel free to identify as âbisexualâ is that it has become such a maligned term. We have to make space for all of the people that might consider identifying as bisexual to feel comfortable doing so if they choose.
Kathleen Nicole OâNeal, bisexual youth activist, February 2012 (via bisexual-community)
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Woman Surprise Her Girlfriend With The News She Will Be Her Kidney Donor - Watch the full video
OH MY GOD THIS IS LOVE
AHHHHHHHHHH YASSSSSS
This is the most heartwarming and good and pure post that has ever been posted on the whole entire internet <3
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uh actually dont? yell at hets for using words like datemate and partner?
because there is always a chance that one of them is a closeted trans person and theyâre trying to not misgender them while also not outing them
and normalizing gender neutral language makes doing that safer anyway
Normalizing gender neutral language when I sa y Gingy is my partner promotes this use so that no one is obligated to know the gender of my, or anyone elseâs partner based on simple introductory conversation. It allows everyone to get acclimated, while breaking presumptions. Which, isnât that part of the goal?
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I have a lot of poly friends and what tires me out the most is the hypocrisy. They (rightly) feel frustrated that their romantic choices are regarded with surprise or skepticism by randos in their life to whom they choose to disclose but many seem to view every monogamous couple in their life as Marge + Homer or Beyonce and Jay-Z or some inherently jealous or sexist model. If y'all so enlightened maybe consider that not every couple you meet wants or would benefit from the choices youâve made.
I will not deny for a second that this type of thinking is all over the place in poly circles. Way too many times Iâve been at a local poly gathering and someone starts in with some âSo, we sure are all so much more enlightened than those narrow-minded mono people, arenât we?â bullshit.
Poly people need to knock it off, because it is shitty.
(It also reminds me a lot of geeks doing the âAll of us geeks sure are so much smarter and more passionate than those boring mundanes, arenât we?â thing, which I also despise)
Something like âenlightenment,â depending on definition, comes with critical self-examination, including how you love and form relationships. Of course, the conclusion there isnât always to become poly. And there are plenty of poly people who havenât gone through that sort of self-scrutiny before. As groups, though? If I had to pick a random person to partner with, and I was specifically looking for that sort of trait, Iâd go for someone poly. (Obviously biased.)
Alex
sometimes itâs simple
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Oh my god youre straight? I had no idea. You seem normal to me. Did you know that Sara is straight to? You two should totally hook up. I cant believe youre straight. You could be my straight best friend. We could go to football games together. Itll be so much fun. So like how long have you been straight? Youre whole life!? No way.
Watch: Hilarious Party Over Here sketch gets at the dark truth behind âmansplaining.â
The âdark truthâ behind mansplaining: itâs total bullshit. Most of the time these kind of things arenât what âmansplainingâ is. More than half the time âmansplainingâ is just a male person saying something to the contrary. Thatâs it; thatâs mansplaining. When itâs not a means to shit on men for the actions of a few (much to the dismay of the last comment in the gifset), itâs an out on having to answer for some kind of wrongdoing. Especially when it comes to pseudo-scientific buzz topics.
But, you know, as a male myself I expect that some woman or feminist will drop by and either preach at me the ways that they think this action is justified or try to dismiss my point with some kind of âsassyâ remark.
So, please, femsplain it to me. ;B
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HAHAHHAHHAHAHAHHAHAHAHHA
THIS comment on THIS gif setâŚwell, you canât write this stuff.
Wait Did some guy just mansplain mansplaining This is like inception levels
The irony and the complete lack of self-awareness⌠how you do fail so bad at basic critical thinking?
This is far from the first time I have seen a man mansplain mansplaining, and Iâm positive it wonât be the last.
If we could get guys to use it, this hotline idea has potential!
I was going to reblog already for the hilarious gif set and then I read the dude in the comments lol
This might qualify as mansplaining, but here I go:
You know how some words lose their meaning when they get overused? (Lookinâ at you, âliterally.â) This happened with âmansplainingâ hella fast, and itâs a shame, because it was such a rich word originally. They key element was that the mansplainer knew less about the topic than the woman but was going on anyway. Now it just means âdude explaining something in a condescending way.â
Oh well. Language is evolving. I guess thatâs still not something we had a word for? The original sense was just so good, though.
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Thereâs a lot to dislike about big business, but I really love how theyâve been flexing their muscles and just not putting up with this shit. Most of them could probably not just comment and no one would think much of it.
Now, most of them are probably doing it because of their bottom line, but hey, Iâll take it!
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Totally how I feel about the new girl in my life. :)
Alex
Is there an exact difference between non-monogamy and polyamory? Or do the two have to go hand in hand? Or is it person by person? Because I think I'm non-monogamous, but I don't exactly know if I'm poly..
Non-monogamy is a very broad category can take many forms; polyamory is simply one general sub-category that encompasses a certain range of behaviors and configurations. Relationship anarchy, swinging, cheating, single-and-dating, and even serial monogamy can be considered forms of non-monogamy depending on how youâre defining âmonogamyâ in the first place.
Hereâs a very brief (and not necessarily inclusive or all the different ways one can engage in non-monogamous relationships) summary from Psychology Today that offers some general definitions, but there is much more information to be gathered from across the interwebs as well as in print books (Tristan Taorminoâs Opening Up might be a good place to start). Itâs also worth pointing out that people will often define and carry out their relationships in ways that may not line up with any other personâs strict definition of a term.
I might suggest focusing less on whether you think youâre poly per se (Iâve heard multiple points of view on whether poly is something you âareâ or whether itâs something you âdoââneither my wife nor I identify primarily as poly, though for rather different reasons; however, the way we carry out our relationships is often analogous to how many poly-identified folks do theirs), but rather looking at what your more specific relationship needs/wants are and what kinds of relationship arrangements or dynamics might fit your needs. There are probably as many different ways to do non-monogamy as there are people, and itâs OK if your relationship needs donât line up with the mainstream definition of any particular umbrella term.
I still think itâs bizarre that we talk about serial monogamy as a form of non-monogamy. I get that some people who engage in serial monogamy might be better suited to some form of non-monogamy, but if you break up with one person to date someone new... yeah, thatâs absolutely monogamy. This is a spectrum, not a loop: you donât get to non-monogamy by doubling down on monogamy.
