Be with someone whose eyes can show you how much they love you, without a single spoken word.
Oh my gosh. So much this.

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@polyculediaries
Be with someone whose eyes can show you how much they love you, without a single spoken word.
Oh my gosh. So much this.

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Intentionally family
It’s the holidays. Thoughts turn to family, etc. I have to admit, this is an interesting year for me. My parents are both gone, and with the exception of one cousin, I’m pretty estranged from my family. My husband’s family hasn’t always been easy, but we’ve maintained a relationship. Different points of view, different ways of approaching my son’s autism and my daughter’s outspoken nature haven’t made it easy. With my husband’s parents’ advancing age, we’ve been spending more time with his side of the family. Including yesterday’s Thanksgiving. Each time, I saw him spend a full day mentally gearing up for the visit....and hours in exhausted silence decompressing after. It’s worthy of note that his brother and brother in law said not a word to him during the entire meal, not even a hello. And his brother in-law shuttled our niece out so quickly after dinner was done none of us could speak to her. When we got home, both adult kids and my husband went into separate rooms for several hours to decompress. And I found myself wondering if it was all worth it.
As we were sitting at our Thanksgiving dinner, my kids’ conversation turned briefly to Christmas. In hushed and paused conversation, they asked if their “other family” could be included in some of our celebrations this year. We’ve been out to our kids almost since the beginning, and since moving within a mile-ish of each other last year, our kids have gotten close. When we got back last night, I couldn’t wait to see them-my real family. The family that I get to choose everyday. We talked about that last night. My girlfriend asking me how I felt on days like Thanksgiving without my big family. I used to miss it. I did. But knowing that I can have a family of love rather than a family that leaves you exhausted doesn’t make me miss it anymore.
My boyfriend can hardly tolerate it when we turn our clocks back in the fall.
My husband is a mess for weeks when we set our clocks forward in the spring.
So I get two dedicated weekends a year with my girlfriend.
Poly for the win.
Everyone thinks that poly relationships are all about hot sex. But here’s the real truth.
My boyfriend binge watches reality tv with me so my husband doesn’t have to. And my husband always has a date to Pink Floyd concerts. Cause that ain’t me. And that’s about it.
We’re really fucking boring.
I have the greatest life
I’m sitting with my gf and my daughter watching Lorena Babbitt true crime while drinking margaritas. Our husbands are having boys night at our favorite bar down the street.

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I go, you go.
Poly is really wonderful. Except in cold and flu season. When one of you gets sick, you ALL get sick. The good news is there is always someone to bring you food and meds. (Thank you husband and girlfriend). There’s someone to drink whiskey with (thank you boyfriend). There’s someone to get the healthier ones out (again, thank you husband and girlfriend) and someone else to tuck you in and rub your back because they feel crappy too. And someone to con you into actually resting when you don’t want to (you’re welcome boyfriend).
And having someone take care of you while you’re throwing up when they are gushing blood from their nose ends up being one of the most loving moments of your life.
against polyamory as identity
framing polyamory as an “identity” or something you’re “born with” forecloses the most radical implications of non-monogamy, i.e the ability to reconstitute one’s relationships (romantic or otherwise) outside of received scripts revolving around control, ownership and hierarchy, basing them instead on voluntary association and abundant affection.
however, not everyone has access to the emotional tools and economic security generally required to pursue non-monogamous relationships, which is why anyone advocating non-monogamy must also grapple with the way society distributes social and material resources.
I’m not sure I agree with this. You can be poly and not practice poly
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Do people refer to your relationships as “experiments”?
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I experimented with monogamy in my youth
It did not go well
Guess it was just a phase
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Polyamorous Community
So, this may be kinda of dumb, since sex, and sexuality, and anything out of the norm isn’t really “cool” with Tumblr right now, but I think it’d be kind of cool to get to know other polyam people here on Tumblr, period. So if you still have an pretty active blog, are polyamorous, practice any form of ETHICAL non-monogamy, or relationship anarchy and want to start a little polyam community, love and/or reblog this so we can all follow and communicate with one another.
They’re the “plus” in LGBTQ+.
One of our favorite bartenders at the local gay bar, describing our poly arrangement to another patron.
I’m feeling sappy so please enjoy a list of romantic gestures that are specific to polyamory. I was specifically thinking about how actively working on your relationship with your metamour can be the easiest act of love you can show to your partner.
Being the designated driver for your partner and their date
Shopping with your partner to find the perfect gift for your metamour
Breaking a bouquet apart to give each person their preferred flowers
Telling your metamour secret tips and tricks you’ve learned for making your shared partner melt
Sitting and helping your partner plot how they’re going to ask somebody out
Making sure the house is nice, clean, and set up before leaving so that your partner can have their date night in
Paying to see the same movie several times in theaters because each of your partners wants to see it with you
Conspiring with your metamour on how to surprise your partner
Watching your partner’s kids or pets so that they can go see your metamour
Keeping each of your partners’ stuff in specific spots in your house so they never have to go looking for it amongst everyone else’s stuff
Subtly excusing yourself so that your partner can get alone flirting time with their crush
Helping your partner relax and prepare for a date
Remembering the shampoo each person uses and keeping some in your shower
Learning to cook something new because your metamour has dietary restrictions and you want to be able to have dinner with everyone
Feel free to add!
All of these things
I just want to crawl in bed with someone I care about and have my heart feel at home again and watch movies and talk about random stuff for hours
In defence of separate bedrooms
Me and my boyfriend have our own bedrooms. And I always feel when I tell people this I always feel I need to justify it. We do usually sleep in the same bed, you know. We are a couple.
It was important for us both, as it turned out, that we have to have our own space. Some of the reasons are specifically poly, and some are not–as with most relationship advice.
-having somewhere to have other partners over without imposing on your live in partner(s) is useful
-it’s emotionally healthy to have a space that is just your own where you can shut the door on the rest of the world when you need to. Where you can keep your things and decorate it however makes you happy.
-being able to easily have space during disagreement helps head off arguments
-being able to “stay over at your partner’s place” even when you live together keeps it feeling fun and exciting
-making a conscious decision to share a bed each night is a good way to practise informed consent, and makes it easier to have a night to yourself when you want to without it feeling like a slight on your partner
-being able to close the door on your partner’s mess means no more arguments over dirty socks on the floor
I appreciate we’re lucky that we have the money and the space to do this, and not everyone can. But I think being able to choose to spend time together is far more romantic than being in an enclosed space together.
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We had professional portraits taken of our polycule. A friend of mine is a photographer and is in the know, and she agreed to take some pictures to tell our very special story. When we finished, I looked at these people and thought just how lucky I am. We had just spent the evening with our collective adult kids. It was taco night. The most unremarkable kind of night. As we were leaving our pictures, I thought, this is exactly how I want t spend the rest of my life....with these people. All of them.