One BIG poly family

Whoa!!!

B) "this is the map of my polycule it includes forty people and three continents and it needs another update because I finished it last week"

Kevin (husband) is away for the weekend for a first visit with one of his LDRs. We usually check in with each other just to see how things are going. He shared something with me that caused me to have a poly lightning bolt moment. I still haven’t fully articulated it to myself so I’m just winging it here. Kevin is a loner. He has very few friends and keeps his people interaction to a minimum. Truthfully, I’ve been his sole relationship of substance for a long time. One thing I know about interacting with other people is that they bring things out of you and that is crucial to developing yourself. Kevin and I have been together for fifteen years. The situations we find ourselves in are largely routine. While we do learn new things about one another and develop each other, it’s different with other people that we’re with. Seeing this in that moment helped me shed a little more of the discomfort I experience with him interacting with other people. It’s not about me. It’s about him and him becoming his own person.

The Aspern Papers (2018)  dir. Julien Landais

You have been visited by the Polyamory Bat of Love. Reblog within the next 30 seconds for good luck in your love life.

Get out.

This is a scheduled post.

A totally different problem for polyamorous bisexual disasters than Alanis originally meant, but a problem none the less.

#HappyMetamourDay #FelizDiaDelMetamor

Do not, under any circumstances, touch their arrows. That’s how you get a polycule the size of Germany.