Plural Positive!

Hey all! We’re sorry for the absence, life’s been kicking us down lately, but hopefully we should be back now and should be able to post at least somewhat frequently! We’re currently working on touching up the blog a bit in terms of its theme have changed our mod names, since we feel like we needed a new look and a new start!

This post is going to be pinned, both as somewhat of an explanation for why we’ve been gone and also to serve as a DNI list to keep our banners short and compact!

Do Not Interact:

Sysmeds/Anti-Endogenic systems/Plural Gatekeepers

Truscum, Transmeds, Terfs, and people who are “Gender Critical”

An A-Spec, Pan, M-Spec, or any other kind of Exclusionist

Anti-Mogai, Anti-Neopronouns, Anti-GNC people, etc.

Anti-Antis or Proshippers

Pro-Ana/ED or Thinspo blogs

NSFW/Kink blogs (Including DDLG/CGL, but Syskids and SFW Age Regressors are fine to interact!)

(No)Maps/PEARs

Cringe/Flop blogs (Or if you’re here to screenshot and submit to those kinds of blogs/places)

There may be more added to our DNI in the future, but we’ll let you all know if that happens!

Hey! Psst!

To the system reading this (no matter your origin or type):

You’re valid! No takebacks!

You’re worthy of love and respect no matter your system type or origin.

You’re worthy of love and respect no matter how many/what kind of headmates you have.

You’re worthy of love and respect no matter how much you do or don’t front.

You’re worthy of love and respect no matter how much you do or don’t communicate with your headmates.

You’re worthy of love and respect no matter how open you are about your system.

You’re worthy of love and respect no matter what.

Psst, hey! To the fictive reading this!

You’re super cool!

You’re hella valid!

You’re your own person!

You’re more than your source!

Your existence isn’t “cringy” or worthy of hate!

There are people who love you!

There are people who care about you!

There are people who support you!

If you’re in a system and finding it hard to do things (whether inworld or while fronting) because of what’s currently going on, you’re valid. Everyone’s going through their own set of struggles right now, it’s not your fault if you can’t keep up a schedule if you're struggling as well.

Take care of yourself, your comfort and safety comes first.

Mod Luna here! Sorry for the absence again, life’s been hitting us pretty hard for reasons I’m sure most of you know about by now. We’re in the final stretch of online school and should be free from schoolwork in the next week or so, so hopefully we should be posting more regularly by then!

We’re currently working on that as well as updating this blog a little bit (with most notably some new banners because nasties can’t behave), but in the meantime we wanna remind you all that positivity requests are open! You can send in an idea for a positivity post through the ask box and we should be able to make a post for you.

Did you think you were in a system but it turned out they were delusions?

Are you in a system and experience delusions?

Are you part of a neurogenic system which comes with/causes delusions?

If you answered yes to any of these, you’re valid! No takebacks!

Are you a traumagenic system that recently discovered you’re actually endogenic?

Did you think you were one kind of system when you discovered you were actually another, or even a mix?

That’s totally cool and valid!

Self discovery is good and doesn’t dismiss your previous experiences! Every system is different, try not to put yourself in a box! Be you!

“I must be getting hate for some reason!” You’re not, some people are just jerks!

“There has to be something wrong with me!” There isn’t!

“They said I’m [Bad thing], [Worse thing] and [Awful thing]!” You’re not!

“This post doesn’t apply to me!” It does!

People will try to make you upset, break you down and get a rise out of you to try and prove their “points” rooted in ableism and gatekeeping. 

Don’t let gatekeepers have their way! 

There are more people who support you than you think!

Stay Strong!

Whether you’ve been able to communicate since day one or you’ve been building up for weeks/months/years, your experience is just as valid as everyone elses!

Every system develops and experiences things at their own pace, so it’s okay if your experience doesn’t match up with others! Take your time!

Whether you’re newly formed and only just figuring out, or have been trying to figure out or find something that fits for months/years, you’re valid!

Everyone has their process of finding out who they are, and even if you don’t find out fully or at all and just choose to keep what you think fits, that’s okay!