forget a relationship i need a friendship as deeply complex and intimate as david and stevie from schitts creek. like whatever they're dynamic was i need that in my life.

cleaning with ADHD is a nightmare. it’s an endless cycle of finding a half-finished chore and stopping the one you were already working on, then remembering that something else needs to be done and getting started on that, then finding half-finished chore and

Don’t let the adorable name fool you—this is some Seriously Good Advice. May be useful for brain fog and depression, too!

Reblogging to save my fellow ADHD peeps from the Sisyphusian curse of cleaning with no focus.

sometimes i wonder if we have forgotten that sharing creative work is, fundamentally, a bid for human connection. like I'm not posting art or fic for 'engagement' i'm posting it looking for other sickos to play with! i'd be making it anyway for my own gratification because there's something wrong with me, i'm sharing it hoping we can have something wrong with us together <3

everyone’s talking about how unhinged fans are nowadays about their blorbos. well let me tell you that when the polish writer henryk sienkiewicz first published his novel ‘with fire and sword’ in parts between 1883 and 1884, and killed off the beloved character longinus podbipięta, people nationwide were so upset they’d go to church and ask for requiem masses to be held in his memory. match THAT freak

yes i know about the arthur conan doyle sherlock frenzy this isn’t about that at all stop english cultural imperialism #slavicpride

#also theres a difference between harassing the author and wanting a mass to ask LITERAL GOD for salvation for the character’s soul.

[After shoveling the driveway for hours] Snow should be illegal [remembers I'm against the carceral state] We should restructure society so that snow doesn't happen [remembers we are actually doing that and it's very bad and also why this snowfall was so bad] Uh-oh

I actually think January is in desperate need of a complete rebrand I just don’t think now is the time to be hitting the ground running or starting fresh or grinding it’s literally time to sleep and restore. It’s the darkest depths of winter, it’s the coldest month of the entire year. I think that trying hard in January goes against nature and I’m not just saying that because I don’t want to go to the gym I truly feel like we’re not respecting the seasons and turning our backs completely on the natural flow of things and it’s so BAD for your BODY and SOUL!! like it’s not a coincidence that seeing the snow melt and the buds appear on the trees every spring makes me want to live again like that’s how it’s supposed to feel and trying to force that feeling in January while everything around you is at peak levels of dead is so insane

adam wakes up, probes his side. rib gone, wound sticky. god's fingers have touched a place that will never be touched again. how does adam not curl up, swell and fall, beg god to touch him again. to touch him everywhere else. not just ribs but cheek, inner thigh, lap. the worst part of the side-wound is not that god penetrated you but that he won't do it again

So uhh the Corruption of Hollis Brown is quite easily my new favorite K. Ancrum book (sorry Wicker King). I am utterly obsessed and I don't think that I'm going to be over it for a while.

Reading the corruption of hollis brown has filled me with such incredible longing. Imagine being so very close to someone like that… to be known in a way that isn’t truly possible in reality

Asexual people who feel pressured into having sex when they don’t want to and queer people that are afraid or ashamed of having sex even though they want to are actually being repressed by the same societal forces but nobody seems to want to talk about that

It would be remiss of me to not mention his pets: the queer as fact story

crocheting and listening to the queer as fact podcast is one of the most soothing and peaceful times in my life

have i ever related more to something on tumblr? probably not

Bring this bad boy back with some delicious context for pride