A desire for simple answers often leads one to greater cruelty than the acknowledgement of nuance or uncertainty. And though there is discomfort in not knowing, it can be 'lashed out' when people expect and force the world to conform to the unrealistic idea of how things are supposed to be.
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There is relationship advice often phrased something like 'avoid those who make you feel guilty about setting a boundary'. But what do you do when the one making you feel guilty about it is you?
There are some who do not see 'truth' and 'wisdom', only their own false assumptions. Without self-awareness this possibility might apply to them, they reassure themselves by trying to convince others.
Self
(No, I might be making this same mistake. I've seen it done by others.)
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You can see it everywhere. People's skin is variants of orange, bright or dark or in between. People eat oranges and cheese. When they eat blueberries, they just want other parts to be more orange. Humans cut down trees so the sun, the biggest orange, can go more places. Even when indoors, we paint walls orange. Therefore it's okay for me to support people who want to pour orange paint on everyone.
(now the explanation)
It seems those who believe human nature is selfish rationalize everything as 'selfish', to the point where it's of course accurate. Similar to how I stretched everything to be orange or about orange. It seems to be done often to justify selfish actions or support of selfish people or actions. If you define everything as selfish, of course it's ok for your actions are ok to be that way. It's like a cult around a word definition. Where does this come from?
It seems like something like a strawman. Except in making something false or too simple with the goal of attacking it, it's making something false or simple to make it never false to be always able to defend it and justify it to oneself. But similarly dishonest.
"How much of the narrative of good vs evil perpetuates what would be called 'evil', because it wants to believe it has something to fight externally rather than face its own problem creations and prejudices? By believing it's a victim, it has a good to assume (itself) and an evil to face that is not itself."
"Deviance, even in support, is an authority driven view, not a scientific one. Existence doesn't go against itself. Reality doesn't always follow our preconceptions."
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"How kind is it to let a person wander into a landmine area if they'd be unhappy if you told them to stop? It would be kinder to stop their entry. Likewise, asserting your own boundaries can be kinder than letting them walk over you."
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Some thoughts on both why the narrative of 'human nature is selfish' makes sense to me and why it doesn't make sense to me.
First why, it does:
It seems to be born out of authority driven rationalization, especially authoritarianism. That if left to one's own devices, people would do the 'selfish' thing like relaxing or playing a game, instead of some kind of work like a chore or helping the larger society.
When it is 'hard work' for growing an economy, it is seen as something to be awarded, such as no taxation, or extreme wealth. Poverty is seen as a punishment of the 'lazy' because they do not give back as proven by how they are poor. The economy is obviously a fair system. It is natural that those who work gain, and those who do not suffer. It has embedded justice.
People should know their place because they are better than some image of who commits crimes with racism.
It can seem to help one feel like they can predict human behavior. It also keeps its own twisted empowerment. After all, if wealth means good and work, then it demands obedience. It says one can deserve power, including through bullying of any downtrodden.
If these poor would work, even if out of spite to fight back, then it would be another story. And this story of rags to riches, or competitive economy, would allow it. Remember, the economy is fair. And this view is provable by all the successes of those who work.
The parts of society, namely egalitarians, who say the poor should be helped and the rich looked at with questioning eyes. These are destabilizers in this reward/punishment cycle. If the poor didn't work, they'd stop, and economies would come crashing down.
But I am one of those egalitarians. So what about the other way?:
To at least the part of my mind that sees it this way, It is rampant cold-hearted abuse, where the rich have no accountability but are made to seem like heroes.
The most selfish people, who hoard such wealth, make it look like they've earned it, by themselves convincing others wealth implies the earn. They could do no work, or even active destructive work, but call it helping the economy, and this mindset would blindly believe them. If said people can prevent the poor from having a decent life, it will just prove the poor are bad, and rich are good. It gives free domain to the authoritarian oppressiveness under guise of deserving it.
The simplification of human nature is selfish, might really just be saying 'authoritarianism is needed to keep people in line'. It is a line of a different kind of abused person who continues the cycle. No amount of empathy might save this mindset for it is clinging to their mind like a superstition.
It might seem rational because you can find selfishness proven by people's actions. And if you believe things like avoiding work is inherently lazy and punishable, it will sustain the cycle. But it is not a proof. It is a superstition, like all prejudice and its irrationality.
One can twist anything to human nature with self-fulfilling prophecy. This one in particular seems to be the most destructive.
So how exactly can one fight this? I don't know. But it seems a large part of the origin comes down to this grasp for a sense of control, that unfortunately has worth so tied to this bullying.