"transmascs love misgendering themselves" hey so are you aware that everytime we try to create inclusive terms we get made fun of? Did you not see how mad TERFs got over the terms "birthing person" or "uterus owner"? We literally can't use terms that wouldn't misgender us because when we do other queer people and people outside the community turn it into a joke.

everyone loves to hate terfs until they realise that it actually entails rejecting bioessentialism entirely and then suddenly you’re “taking things too seriously” and you “don’t have a sense of humour” like i’m sorry but saying protect the dolls doesn’t make you immune to terfism it has seeped into every corner of mainstream feminism and unless you’re actively searching it out and checking your own biases you will always be at risk of sharing a space with terfs

the thing is even if you don't "believe" in transandrophobia, a lot of people on here are just straight up transphobic to trans men. it is transphobic to say all trans men are evil. it is transphobic to say people should not transition to being a man. "bomb that kills all tboys" is transphobic. it is transphobic to tell trans men to sit down, shut up, and stop bitching when we try to talk about our experiences. if you do not support and love trans men then you are a transphobe.

"transandrophobia doesn't exist because cis men don't experience oppression for being men" i'm not sure where in the conversation we got lost but we're not actually talking about cis men right now

OK, but will you love the insane woman who stabs people in the back and does toxic yuri to cope, when he transitions to a man? Hmm? Will you?

Will you celebrate and defend transmasculine anger the way you have put up female rage on a pedestal prior to his transition, or will the righteousness of his anger be invalidated when it can no longer be made pretty with a dress?

Or will you demand that he make himself smaller upon transition? Will you revoke his right to revenge when he grows facial hair? Will you see his body as the shape of an enemy when he comes to you bleeding and begs for rest before he goes back out to the battle? Will you deem him unsafe in his sleep, now that you know his name is Jenson and not Jennifer, Mark and not Miriam, Noel instead of Noelle? And when you push him into the grave and burry him alive to make yourself feel better, will you call that righteous too?

fake trans man + transmasc lover, I saw you get mad that a transmasc said he’s suffering from misogyny, and then also get mad when he calls it transandrophobia, and then also get mad when he calls it antitransmasculinity and then also get mad when he calls it misandry and then also get mad when he calls it —

if you enter any primarily-trans or queer social space with the intent to make trans men “sit down” and “shut up” and “give space” etc I consider you a detriment to the mental health of your community members and I’m going to say something to you about it

Every day people find new and woke ways to tell us to man up and bury our feelings. New and woke ways to call us bitchy, whiny, and bossy. New and woke ways to say we're hysterical. New and woke ways to define us by their assumptions of our genitals. New and woke ways to victim blame us for the abuse we face. Isn't it fun? Are you having fun? Aren't we all having so much fun?

you people are so cruel towards transgender men, plain and simple. at some point you have to take a fucking step back from internet discourse and realize that you are just being insanely cruel to a marginalized group that's already incredibly vulnerable to violence, specially sexual and domestic. what are you fucking doing?

Nah im truly fucking sick of transphobes coming into our tags and telling us about our own experiences as if we're stupid little girls and refuse to listen to us, and to also simultaneously paint us as misogynistic men "talking down" to others while literally doing that very thing to us. It's a lose/lose situation: you can't point out that they're being misogynistic towards you because then that just gets you branded as a condescending man weaponising his agab or some bullshit. It's so fucking insidious it's disgusting. I'm not being nice anymore, I'm done. Transmascs we have got to get meaner