I'm the Nan with the Plan!

when i checked in to the hotel they gave me a free cookie, as is customary at this chain, and she let me know “you can ask for as many as you want” (didn’t tell me this last time) — “but, ehh, we wouldn’t want you to have a tummy full of cookies, would we? tsk tsk”

A doll youtuber I watch has made a video about the history of Polly Pocket, and she's describing the plots of the dvd specials, one of which features an elderly woman named Ms. Throckmorton, and my reaction was

Thanks for sexualizing peoples trauma fuckhead

I swear 10 years ago people had far better takes about porn and feminism and were all about listening to sex workers and there was genuine progress and understanding about state violence what the hell happened the past couple years, why are we not listening to sex workers anymore why is the church and conservatives The Voice Of Women now apparently we have regressed feminism like 60 years entirely for the sake of marginalizing trans women, sacrificing them in the altar of face-eating leopards where the fuck is free the nipple, gender desegregation, anything???

The complete rejection of and backtracking from "free the nipple" is one of the most stark proofs of this to me right now. Every other repost of that post I made a few days ago about my roommate saying they would show people their mastectomy scars to "prove they belong in the women's bathroom" is people accusing them of threatening to "flash women" and comparing nipples to genitals.

how it feels to decline when the self-checkout kiosk asks to round up fourteen cents to support homeless veterans