patron saint of the wholly unserious

If you have written bad fanfiction clap your hands

i love when a character’s worst traits become, against all odds and against their will, what saves them. when their irrational paranoia suddenly becomes right. when their obsessive vendetta suddenly makes them useful. when their cowardice leaves them the only person left to carry on

i am not immune to a well choreographed fight scene with a fun song in the background

i think defaulting Femdom She Pegs Him in m/f ships is loser behavior not just because it reinforces sexism by implying bottoming is the inferior sexual act and topping by a woman as equivalent to feminist action, where submission or bottoming on her behalf would be misogynistic to portray. but also because i think girls deserve to be fucked stupid as much as men do. and that it’s hot.

You claim to love women, yet you cannot conceive of sex where she is the submissive and/or bottoming party where her pleasure is still paramount? You claim to love women, and yet you still act like she should be doing all the work sexually in this relationship? You claim to love women, and yet you won’t let her be pinned down drooling into her pillow?

do not take that to mean that i don’t enjoy a good bit of femdom or pegging porn myself, because the issue is not the kinks themselves, which are neutral; it’s the kinks used as like. a symbol of Empowering Sex For A Woman. femdom/pegging used in an m/f ship to assuage fears that you’re being too heteronormative or sexist, rather than actually tackling what those biases mean for how you write the characters themselves, not just the sex acts you put them in. pegging is hot. pegging is still not praxis, and your version of an m/f is not morally superior for having the man bottom.

also: should go without saying on account of this being Transgender: The Blog, but the default femdom/pegging situation for m/f ships? even weirder and more uncomfortable and unsexy when it’s a transfem or trans woman character. let her get her brains fucked out now!!!

does anyone wnt to turn into a creature with me. it does have to be weird btw

thirty-two candles, and somewhere inside me every age I have ever been is standing on tiptoe to see them. the grass-kneed child, the tender-hearted girl, the almosts and afters and not-yets. what a strange, beautiful thing to become old enough to carry your own ghosts home and discover they have turned into guests. ♡