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Hello hello~. I’m Mys Oleander, or Andi for short. My pronouns are mostly they/xe here, but she is also fine, and you are definitely allowed to call me a good girl. ;3

I’m 33 years old, I’m asexual, biromantic and nonbinary, polyamorous and I’m a switch. Though I’m bottom leaning, I do enjoy teasing the odd sweet little sub. Something about when they get all flustered and desperate for me…

Most of this will be reblogs of content I find hot, but I have been trying to write more so occasionally I’ll post a thing. You’ll find my fiction under #oleander writes, my other musings under #oleander rambles, and my pictures under #oleander poses. You can also find my stories on ReadOnlyMind!

DMs and Asks are currently open, even to anons (we all know how many of these are side blogs), but if ya’ll abuse it, that’ll change. Please recognize that though we’re on tumblr, if we’ve never spoken before we’re still strangers. We can chat and get to know one another. Once we’ve developed a rapport, I’ll be more than happy to play with you. But I don’t tend to get chummy right away, I don’t obey orders from people who haven’t earned it, and I don’t take people coming into my space trying to harm me lightly.

Also I am tired and overworked bc capitalism so if I don't answer you right away, please don’t take it personally. I will get to you when I am in a better headspace. I am also awkward as hell and kinda shy so pls understand. 😂

Also also, I am Owned and in a lovely triad with @pixiebound and @thechaotic-monsterfucker, so don’t expect friendly play to become any more than that. I am always looking for more friends to talk about kinky stuff with and learn from <3.

If you’re a TERF, transphobe, nazi, pedo/MAP, queerphobe, racist, fatphobe, or bigot of any kind, stay off my blog and don’t interact with my content. If you are a minor, stay off my blog and don’t interact with my content.

And if you’re under 24, please don’t DM me. I’m fine with you scrolling through and commenting, or reblogging my stuff, but interacting with anyone younger than that in a kinky or suggestive manner makes me uncomfortable. Please have your age or age range in your bio. Blogs without even an age range, especially blank blogs, will be blocked.

Please don't add your own links and pictures onto my posts. Discussion and interaction is fine, advertising yourself on my posts is not. That's what your own posts are for!

I am okay being called: a good girl, cutie, pet, dummy, and a slut by anyone. Mys is acceptable if you’re feeling subby. Other things can be negotiated as they come up.

Kinks:

You’ll find a lot of hypnosis, brainwashing, conditioning, gaslighting, and other mind-control content here, as that’s my big red button.

Other things I’m into: degradation/humiliation, praise, dumbification/IQ play (not bimbofication unless I’m in a very specific mood), objectification, dehumanization, orgasm control, cnc, somnophilia, free use, cumplay, power dynamics including TPE, exhibitionism, lactation/hucow role-play, breeding, light petplay, rope play, light impact play, primal play (APPERENTLY).

Soft limits: heavy transformation, heavy petplay, knife play, blood, piss/omorashi, misogyny, intox.

Hard limits: race play, age-play, detrans, scat, findom, drones, feeding/gaining, weight control, incest, mutilation, spit, face slapping, rape (as in, don’t ever use that word when playing with me).