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So anyways people ask me why I don’t have a fully negative view of masculinity and I think this might answer your question.

everytime i wear an outfit like this i think about this tweet

everytime i wear an outfit like this i think about this tweet

But the thing is...that's not a flaw of kindness. That's not a you problem. That's a them problem. People who are happy with themselves and their lives don't go out of their way to misuse someone's kindness or grace. The "normal" response to kindness or empathy is not to find a way to exploit it. People who are happy with themselves don't look for ways to hurt people for no reason. Kindness will never be the problem. No matter what some shitty person decides to do with it. It should go without saying not to be a doormat, yes. Don't allow people to treat you badly just for the sake of being kind. But also don't let shitty people make you bitter because of how they treated you when you were kind.

— Bojack Horseman creator Raphael Bob-Waksberg commenting on how weird gendered defaults in entertainment are, and why we should think twice about them. Excerpted from this longer original post. (via 360degreesasthecrowflies)

I need to remember that 90% of the people discussing politics on here are basically operating at this level of historical literacy.

i love this reply in particular

dehumanizing abusers is not effective at doing anything other than make people think they're ontologically incapable of violence

if you dehumanize the hypothetical abusers you create incentives for false accusations as a means of dehumanization whenever dehumanization is desired for other reasons

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I'mana keep on dancin' 🐎🩷

This is one of my favorite watercolor pieces. It's a Field of Lavender. I love how the colors flow in this painting. This is a small painting. I used some left over watercolor paper I had.

made a pride flag using landscape photos ive taken <3

i think i saw a movie like this once

Guy makes a really stupid decision and gets in a car accident -> no real damage from accident but insurance goes up -> starts beating himself up over his stupid decision -> gets depressed -> starts to realize he's single and had crash been worse he'd die alone -> realizes he's never had a relationship or even a crush and starts wondering what he'd want out of a relationship -> starts to realize he doesn't really like girls so he thinks he must be gay -> realizes he likes girls and boys about the same amount, so he must be bi -> later realizes that "same amount" is none at all -> he's ace