Big red centipede from outer space

shout out to all the trans men on this site that are normal about trans women

shout out to all the binary (+non GNC) trans folks on this site that are normal about nonbinary/genderfluid/multigender/GNC/etc trans people

shout out to all the perisex trans people on this site that are normal about intersex (and intertrans) people

RUDE AND MEAN

as an androgyne who was assigned female and is regularly read in public as a clocky tgirl... genderfuck was my goal and it was a success actually. because i am transsexual and i transed my sex and that impacted how i am perceived and move through the world. is this not in the same genre as telling certain trans women or men that they'll never pass because of their bone structure. people keep trying to make (particularly nb/gq) people feel ashamed of wanting to be androgynous (& in a lot of ways imitating the old exorsexist narrative that nonbinary/genderqueer people think we're better than binary gender conforming trans people and that "binaryphobia" is a real thing). & in doing that there's just this attitude that like, none of this genderfuckery is material, none of these people's genderfuckery could possibly be reflective of their actual social or physical experiences with gender.

and moreover that these people's desire to be androgynous is not the same as a binary person's dysphoria. binary dysphoria is something you can't help, something natural and normal and deserving of respect and care. nonbinary dysphoria is always always always read primarily as an aesthetic preference, a political maneuver, and so is treated like an ideological move to be picked apart sociopolitically. and so its totally okay to openly mock nonbinary/genderqueer people for wanting to be androgynous or "genderfuck" and to directly say they will never be able to have that and its funny and pathetic that they want to have that, because our dysphoria isn't real dysphoria, its a choice. it's something we're rubbing in your face, something that makes us think we're better than you, because god knows every thing nonbinary people do is actually about binary people and their egos.

its very much a "nonbinary people arent REALLY trans and they wish they were" kind of argument and the same kind of argument shes been making for years bc shes truscum 100%

RUDE AND MEAN

RUDE AND MEAN

Btw, i’m a TF2 fan too.