So many things

my worst relatives try to sneak meat or meat products into my food despite the fact that I'm a vegetarian

my ex's brother gave his mother an edible without her knowledge and when she got freaked out and paranoid they laughed, and people I've told that go "yeah that's shitty but it's just weed"

when I go to the doctor and ask them to describe what they are going to do before touching me they get frustrated

when I ask a friends of a friend who is a small influencer to keep me out of frame in videos they film for social media in public they look at me like I've pissed in their cereal

let's look at the Harm to Minors section of Tumblr's User Guidelines together:

according to the above, content that violates the user guidelines, is reportable, and is ground for content removal and account termination includes the following:

content featuring abuse of a minor, including pictures of real people, illustrations, animations, or text

suggestive or sexual content involving a minor or anyone who appears to be a minor, including pictures of real people, illustrations, animations, or text

content facilitating child sexual abuse, including pictures of real people, illustrations, animations, or text

content promoting child sexual abuse or extortion, including pictures of real people, illustrations, animations, or text

according to tumblr's own user guidelines, the text fantasies that are constantly being shared around on here of the sexual abuse of children are reportable offenses that merit removal from this website & potential termination of the account of the posters. it is not content that this website wants to host and, as far as I am aware, never has been. the earliest version I can find of Tumblr's User/Community Guidelines on their own Github is from 2012 and features this wording:

I recommend that you take a few minutes familiarise yourself with the user guidelines if you haven't already. you can know exactly what this website wants (quite a lot) and does not want (not that much) on it so you can understand the platform you're on and what content is considered acceptable, and consider if you want to use it based on that.

if you see content violating any of the user guidelines, but especially the Harm to Minors one highlighted within this post, please report it. children are an especially vulnerable group and there are children on this website. the fantasies that are shared about child abuse by some users of this platform do not exist in a vacuum.

in a previous post I talked about the mass grooming problem this website had pre-pornography ban. as a child on this website in that era I was groomed by adults who are very similar to those trying to normalise sharing pedophilic fantasies on this website today. those who claim to care about children while sharing these fantasies openly on a platform that prohibits said content and that children use do not care about children. entire websites exist that proudly allow for this sort of content to be shared, and yet these users continue to use Tumblr because they want to violate the boundaries of its users, including children, and believe that platform rules do not apply to them. imagine saying Facebook or Instagram are pedojacketing you because they ban you for talking about how much you want to groom children lol.

"people have to hide their emotions to perform specific types of labour where their apparent emotions influence another person's. Eg. Flight attendants have to be cheerful all the time, so that passengers feel welcome and safe. This suppression and masking of emotion can cause a sense of disconnect within the individual where they dont know what their true feelings are. This is part of the Marxist idea of alienation from labour and from the self."

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