Be Feminine Now

The witch should have known the spell only works on unwilling males, misogynists, TERFs, and sissies, meant to make them feel shame and guilt. However, it’s also meant to liberate girls from the body they weren’t meant to be born in. It just made you speedrun your transition! You’re pretty much just like any other girl now. Even the people you love and know have seen your change. Its like, new memories of pain, guilt, hardships, joys, euphoria, and successes have been added. All of that are from the imaginations that came true. For something deemed unethical and meant to torture those who done wrong, it worked in your favor!

Picture this: You're shopping at the mall and this girl showed up out of nowhere to compliment your look. Both of you are shocked to see the resemblance to each other. You come to find out she's also trans, but looks like she has been in transition much longer than you. You agree to hang out with her for the day and consider her your new trans girly bestie after having a blast with her. Everything seems to be fine, until this happens:

You have two choices: cut her off and let her be, or continue being her friend and become a positive influence for her as a trans woman. Either choice is valid; one choice doesn’t make you a better or worse person. You have a transition plan to work on.

These are the same people that also wonder why no one goes to church anymore, let alone complain that their kids no longer visit them.

If you’re reading this, buckle up because this is going to be very long.

If you haven’t noticed, most of my GIFs lean very much towards the fantasy side of feminization compared to the picture captions. This one, however, isn’t one of those, as it will strike a nerve or two. This is something a lot of us had to face at one point in our lives. It’s even worse for those who are just discovering themselves today as trans people are more visible than ever, and unfortunately, also more prone to being attacked by conservative nut jobs, religious extremists, and corrupt politicians.

In my experience, it wasn’t even that long ago that the my ex-church leader brought up the topic of trans girls in a very negative light about how they’re “mutilating” their body parts (But somehow, circumcision is okay, how ironic) and taking meds for “chemical castration”. What do you know, by denouncing that “trend” and encouraging youth to be “exorcised”, the congregation would applaud him for “telling the truth”. Of course, along with the rising transphobia and homophobia, extremism of the church, and personal drama inside the congregation, I left not too long afterwards. I was glad to leave as I realized I was at a sinking ship. Unfortunately, most of the people there went to other churches that as time went by, became more extreme.

Now why did I went? Because of personal reasons. It’s how they prey on you and force you to be like them through sessions, which include conversion therapy for those suspected of being LGBTQ+. While this shouldn’t discourage anyone who is of religious faith to abandon their beliefs (if anything, knowledge of books like the Bible have enough verses to use and call out the hypocrisy of religious zealots using these sacred books for their personal agenda), it’s very important to be aware who you’re being associated with and how this will affect you as a transgender or LGBTQ+ person in the long run. I won’t state what denomination I was a part of prior to my disaffiliation with that faith. All I can say is that it’s one that has been dangerously influencing international politics (the GIF is a major hint).

If you still don’t believe me before I wrap this long essay, just take a look at how my post is flagged. Sure, the hot babe is one indicator. But if we remove her, is there a reason why this post should be flagged by sharing a real-life experience of church as an LGBTQ+ person? Kids still go through this kind of stuff by being shamed for their identity from grown adults. I’m not going to mention other topics like being scapegoated for other things. That’s another can of worms. Of course, if you took the time to read this long description, you might have caught how I mentioned about “chemical castration”. That’s a thing that’s used by questionable HRT sellers here, as well as lurkers who invade our safe spaces and use our experiences, fantasies, and realities to attack us. I’m not surprised those same lurkers that are proudly anti-trans on the outside are also the same chasers and daddies that try to prey on sissies and attention-deprived trans girls here on this site. You will know it because the language they use to demonize us is also the same language used in these feminization spaces. It’s always projection from who you least suspect.

Anyways, long rant over. I wanted to share this for Flashback Friday as I don’t forget the real reason this blog was made: to share every fantasy and reality we face as trans women and trans girls, whether its through my POV or yours.

At least you get to slowly see who your true friends are. On the bright side, you smile more and you love yourself more than before.