Eva's Gone WILD

- I WILL live in luxury 

- I WILL marry rich

- I WILL accomplish my goals

- I WILL exceed all of my expectations

- I WILL be at peace

- I WILL get an SD to agree to a 5k+ allowance

- I WILL find a whale

- I WILL live a comfortable high maintenance lifestyle

- I WILL get the next man to purchase me an expensive bag 

- I WILL meet very well connected and wealthy sponsors during OTC

- I WILL overcome my shyness while freestyling

LESS screentime for MORE focus on the things that truly matter. For the things I procrastinated on like school work but also my dreams that I've been dragging with me for YEARS.

LESS spending money on things that only bring me joy in the moment and MORE investing in things that'll last or bring me even more money.

LESS stressing over boys/ messing with them for MORE self-love and the development of my self-worth

LESS cluttered bags, rooms, work spaces for MORE comfort und headspace.

LESS speaking on my goals and my personal business for MORE achievments and my sweet golden privacy.

I have to cut a lot of bad habits and people off (or distance myself) and it won't be easy. At all. But if I really want to live the lifestyle I've been imagining myself to have in the next 5 years (I'll be 21) , I'll have to start NOW.

I think you get the gist. leveling up all 2020, no slacking :)

One of the things that I get a lot of is emails from women who have never escorted who are blown away by my pricing structure (even though I charge an average rate) and want that immediately.

These girls lack two things:

1. Experience & Reputation

2. Business Understanding

How to price yourself appropriately if you’re new to the business is a tricky endeavor. Many girls want to charge $500/$600/$800/$1000 out the gate because they equate themselves with the prices they charge.

For example, if Bridgette charges $250 an hour she is only worth $250 an hour. This could not be further from the truth. This is a faulty way of thinking getting into sex work. You cannot think like this. 

If you are a model with a flawless body, sparkling personality, and are a savvy businesswoman you can try and set your rates higher than average and the best of luck to you.

For the rest of us normal looking girls with badass attitudes who are intelligent and know how to throw down, it pays to build your sex work business the same way you would any other type of business. 

1. Determine what your product is. 

For most women this will be a girlfriend experience. For the majority of ladies, their services are the same, though the experience is different of course, just as different as the courtesan you’re looking for. 

2. Research your competitors.

While there is never any real competition in the escort market, it pays to do your homework on the other women in your area whose ethnicity, body type, and age range is similar to yours. Why is this important?

Because like it or not, some products are valued more than others by the consumer base. This is not meant to discourage anyone or anything but of all the market research I have done the #1 escort look + donation = white women between the ages of 24-32 who are a minimum of 5′5″ - 5′8″ with 34C breasts whose average donation is $600.

This is not my opinion. This is based on extensive market research I have been doing for years. 

If you want to know how to price your product look at women who fall within the same general category as you. Go to the supermarket and look at the diapers. Seriously. You’ve got the premium diapers, the average diapers, and the low end diapers. Why do I say diapers? Because as sex workers we handle a lot of shit, and I figured it was appropriate. (Where is the lie?)

3. Do an in depth analysis of what your realistic goals are, your monthly expenses, and base your price point to financially meet those goals with realistic expectations. I recommend going with an average of 10 working hours a week. 

If your base donation is $300 per hour and you work 10 hours a week you’re making $3,000 a week and $12,000 a month. That is a very good income and is average for sex work. The key to success is knowing how to start with a good foundation. 

4. Only raise your rates when your current demand exceeds your willingness to provide. 

One of the things I see women do is take “breaks” because they are “burned out” etc. This is when you, as a sex worker, get in trouble. You need to be doing regular self care, and breaks while you are working not working yourself so hard and long that you become mentally and emotionally fatigued to the point you must take a mental break. 

We have all been to that point, but with time comes knowledge and here is mine.

When you reach that point where you’re like, I cannot do this something needs to change. This is when you take two days off, meditate, and raise your rates. Even if it is not a significant raise, $25/$50/$100 you will feel immensely better for it. 

Whether you choose to grandfather your current clients in at your old rate is up to you. I have done both, but at this moment I do not grandfather clients in unless I honestly feel it’s necessary. 

And it’s never necessary as the value for my time isn’t based on an emotional need, but a logical assessment of my business and what my clients spend on me on average. 

5. Create benchmarks for your financial goals and stick to them. 

When you reach a certain point when you truly feel satisfied with your rate, look, performance, and overall branding this is when you need to do a value based assessment of your business. 

Track your clientele and $$ for a minimum of 4-6 months and once you have that data go through and average it. I did this and found that on average my clients spend $764 on me in an appointment. This means that my most popular dates are 90 minute VIP engagements or 2 hour GFE engagements. I raised my one hour rate significantly from $400 to $500(GFE) & $600(VIP) to discourage those who were not in my target market. 

My average client is white, age 34-47, and spends on average $764 on me per engagement. 

This was discovered because I truly want to work smarter, not harder. 

When I first started as an escort I started at $300 for one hour, and $500 for two hours. After 6 months I raised my 2 hour rate to $600 and this was my rate for almost two years. This is what gave me peace of mind, paid bills, food on the table, and the confidence to continue to build my brand. 

I raised my rate to $350/$700 after 2 years, and that was my rate for the next 5 years in the business. Then I upped my rate to $400hr/$800 2hrs and that was my rate until May of 2015 when I set my rate at $500/$600 hr & $800/$900 for 2 hours. 

The evolution of your rate structure should be the same as if you were pricing out a product that got better, and more desirable over time. The more you work on your business, the harder you hustle, the more you define who you are as a companion and businesswoman the easier it will be for you to reach the level to which you aspire to be. 

Remember, ALL of us started somewhere, never look down on yourself because you are charging $250/$300 hr when you feel you’re as good as if not better than some other escorts. 

You as a person are priceless. 

Found these on Seeking Arrangement

1. Your wallet should be as thick as me

2. I hope your day is as great as my ass

3. I was never the girl next door

4. Tell your wife you’re donating for a good cause

5. Well, here I am! What are your other two wishes?

6. I’m a cheerleader, what more could I say

7. Too much money? Allow me to help

8. My real dad sucks

9. Student looking for reasons not to work!

While I was sugaring I spent most of my time freestyling. After a couple of months I became a pro freestyler to the point that I started getting regular dudes to by me things.

So to help out any ladies who are moving over to the freestyle world I would like to give you some of the ways i would spot POTs while out. I’ll even talk about how I get vanilla men to buy me what I want.

Do remember that this isn’t a 100% successful all the time. You will make mistakes and you will find some bad POT even with this list but don’t let it discourage you.

Let’s start with something simple…

Where are you seeing him

If you see a man while you’re at a Gala, fundraiser, nice restaurant, or a private event he’s probably a sure thing. But if you see him at burger king, the local mall, or at a public event either walk away or enter with caution.

I met my last couple of SDs at some private events I got invited to. They turned out to be the sponsors of the event so I knew they were the kind of men to give money and give they did. My next sign is…

His business card

Not only is this giving you the info you need to screen him but the quality of it tells you the quality of the business.

I’ve done graphic designing before and let me tell you it’s not cheap to print a nice business card. If it’s thick, with raised letters, info on the back, and has gold on it than it cost a good amount of money.

Another thing to look for is his job title because not all are the same and all of them don’t have to be CEO titles. I personally like Founders and Co-founder but I’ve had a couple very giving Executive directors too so you never know.

Let’s move on to some basic signs…

How is he dressed?

I know this is broad so I’ll break it down.

Does his suit fit?

Men who have high paying jobs always have to look their best which means 9 times out of 10 they re wearing a suit. But because many men are trying to fake it till they make it, you have to make sure the suit fits literally.

If his suit is slipping off the shoulder, to long in the arms, a little big on him or worse wrinkled then pass. You want to spot a tailored man; trust me even if it’s off the rack a wealthy man will get it tailored.

Just look at this SwagUp

Is the material good quality?

We’re all women who love buying high quality outfits, so I know you all know what good material feels and looks like. I’ve found myself shopping for SDs just to know what certain suits and clothing felt and looked like.

Good quality suits are based on thread counts kind of like bed sheets. The higher the count the softer and more silk like it feels which means the more it costed. My favorite high end shop for men is Brooks Brothers hands down but if you want to see some great examples of high quality mens clothes go to blacklapel.com

Does he have nice shoes

This a pretty obvious one especially if you know what real leather looks like. But seeing that a lot of millionaires now are tech heads, and weed growers I urge you all to know what the latest sneaker wear is excluding Jordans. Any man can own some Jordans but not all men can buy one of Gary V’s new Kswiss shoe line before it’s on the market.

This also goes for clothes too. Be sure to know what a good quality shirt and jeans looks like for wealthy men. I’ve seen many tech CEOs go to private events with jeans and blazer that cost just as much as a tailored suit.

Is his watch expensive?

We all know most guys are rocking a Rolex but that’s not the only watch that’s expensive. Many men I dealt with wore mainly Cartier, Bvlgari, Hublot, and Patek Philippe watches (as well as other accesories). These brands come in different styles but they all cost a lot of money some are in the millions.

As I mentioned with the clothes styles there are changes in style due to the type of men who are making millions now. So don’t get turned of by rubber bands and smart watches because they can cost just as much. Look up the Tag Heuer watches they are a high quality smart watch and you can tell them apart from others.

Does he have simple but expensive frames?

Not many women think about frames but as a person who love buying new sunglasses every summer I’ve started to learn my frame brands. When I go to these presentations and notice a man with fancy glasses I always make it a point to tell him I like his (insert brand) glasses. This has always equalled me getting a business card.

So for those who don’t know, look for frames by Catier, Lindberg, Karen Walker, and Tom Ford. Of course there are many designer options for glasses you can easily recognize but if you know the ones that no one else picks up on it can be a great ice breaker.

How he grooms himself

A wealthy man isn’t necessarily a healthy man but he’s always we’ll groomed. They upkeep themselves at all times and keep all their grooming appointments. Of course there are men who aren’t always clean cut but they’re still groomed.

Their hair is always styled, yes even in if they’re in dreadlocks, their nails are usually cut and filed, his bread line will be lined up, and his skin will more than likely be soft. Some men have softer hair than I do sometimes because their products are way better.

My old SD would by bulks of moisturizing soaps, and lotion to keep his skin from drying out. His hands were so soft that it put my hands to shame. Of course you can’t see that from across the room but whenever a man introduces himself he will shake your hand and you will get to feel. Please exclude having soft hands if you find out his job is more outdoors but even they can have soft hands too.

How he approaches you

How a man approaches you can show you where you have an advantage or disadvantage.

Slow = Time saver , Fast = Time Waster

Now from what I’ve observed whenever a man is really quick to come over and give me his number he’s usually also very quick to do everything else. Men like that usually don’t want long term arrangements so I don’t really waste my time with them.

Now a man that comes to you, ask you questions, and arranges a meet up while giving you his number is more likely to be a SD. Intentions are always shown in snippets starting from the day he meets you to the third date which is my arrangement time limit so watch for signs like this speed example.

I had one guy walk pass me like this and I melted in my seat

Talks about himself = Be a listener

Ask lots of questions = Be mysterious

If you meet a man and he’s talking about his work and his accomplishments a lot, one of three things are happening.

He’s trying to show off and you can get lots of gifts from him.

He’s trying to impress you and you can start equating his impressiveness with how much attention you give him.

He just wants someone to talk to and he might be willing to pay you to be a sympathetic and intimate listener.

Now if the tables are turned and he wants to you to talk more leave some mystery with the answers you give. If he ask you where you live you can say “ This is my hometown but I’ve lived in many cities after I was done with school.” Giving broad answers like that will not only help keep your identity safe but it will leave you with more stuff talk about at later dates.

Mystery will always have your POT wanting more which means more dates which equals more money.

Interaction with others

The one thing I have to say about this is watch how he treats people who serve him because that shows how he could or/will treat you. You are providing him a service and if he doesn’t respect that at a small scale he won’t respect it at a big scale either.

Last but not least my last sign for spotting POTs is…

Is he approaching you with a ring on?

Most married men who are trying to entertain me are looking for some kind of escape or excitement. So when I hear them complimenting me, sharing stories, and looking me up and down I know I have a POT. Now if he’s good or bad is seen by the previous signs but more than likely he wants to pay for your time.

As many might know married men pay more due to them having more to lose but they also have less time to give (unless legally separated). So if you don’t mind a ring get your flirt on and make your money.

Vanilla men

How I get regular men to buy me things is actually very simple but you have to pick the right man.

You know those guys you see that try to stunt about how successful they are and the guys you see faking it till they make it. Thats the kind of guy you’re looking for.

So you want to go to places they go to make this work (ex. Club VIP, Networking events, Artsy events, etc.).

Before I go out to these events I do the following things:

Do my best natural face makeup look

Wear somethings that shows all my curves

Wear comfy statement heels (yes, they do exist)

Wear my hair down

And put all the good smells on.

Once presentable I will go out to these event and flirt it up. Once I get my first drink from a man I start to ask for something a little more expensive and if he gets it I’ll have officially started the cycle of giving.

On our first date I always pick the place and “introduce him” to something new. I usually pick a place I go to treat myself anyway just in case he’s not as giving and tries to split the check. But if he’s gets through three dates like this with a gift (that I ask for) at the third I know I can get him to keep giving to me.

I had guys buying me stuff like drake did Nicki lol

This is how I do it but I’ve heard and seen different methods so if you have any please share.

I hope this was all helpful and look forward to my next post.

Old Hollywood Gold Digger Classic Films

All About Eve (1950)

Bringing up Baby & Holiday (1938) – Cary Grant & Katharine Hepburn

Butterfield 8 – Elizabeth Taylor

Cat on a Hot Tin Roof

Daddy Longlegs – Fred Astaire

Double Indemnity (1944)

East of Eden

Gentlemen Prefer Blondes – Marilyn Monroe

Gilda (1946)

His Girl Friday (1940) – Cary Grant & Rosalind Russell

How to Marry a Millionaire – Marilyn Monroe

It Happened One Night

Jezebel (1938)

La Dolce Vita (1960)

Porgy & Bess (1959) – Sidney Poitier & Dorothy Dandridge

Sabrina (1954) – Audrey Hepburn & Humphrey Bogart

Spellbound (1945) – Gregory Peck & Ingrid Bergman

That Touch of Mink – Cary Grant

The Apartment (1960) – Jack Lemmon & Shirley MacLaine

The Clock (1945) – Judy Garland & Robert Walker

The Lady Eve (1941)

The Postman Always Rings Twice (1946)

The Seven Year Itch (1955)

The Snows of Kilimanjaro (1952) – Ava Gardner & Gregory Peck

* you are in control of how much money you make. it is the law of attraction. you are a siren. you are a cash magnet. you are opulent. you are expensive. excuses, negativity, insecurity, and victimhood will never pay your bills.

* stack your fucking money and use allowances towards what is going to give you affluence and net worth. don’t let the internet rush you into splurging on chanel for temporary happiness. it’s only going to keep you from having the lifestyle you’re truly striving for.

* invest in your body and only spend what is going to make you more money. plastic surgery, skincare, gym memberships, and veneers are always going to give you a quadruple return. routine spa days are such a treat to your mental health and prevents burnout. the rest of it can be put on a man’s tab.

* use successful men as your educators. is he an investment banker? you can get thousands of dollars of investment services for free. diversify your portfolio. is he a multi million business owner? use him to start up your own business. is he a tax advisor? you can save thousands in taxes with a wink of an eye. this is advice google can’t give you.

* there’s always money in the club. every man with a credit card is full of potential. just because he says he can’t afford it, doesn’t mean he can’t. it’s up to you to make him fall in love with you, or the next girl. it only takes one.

* make a handwritten schedule and stick to it. this allows you to capitalize the most out of your time. never waste it… use your schedule as your own personal assistant. this helps alleviate the stress of adulting. every day can be contributed towards your success. 

* write down your goals often and always remind yourself of the big picture. create a vision board of your success. visualize it. dream about it. obsess over it. conceptualize it. manifest it into fruition.

* eye contact, confidence, and a smile. eye contact, confidence, and a smile. eye contact, confidence, and a smile.

* your sexual health is important. routine full panel std blood tests are important. gynecologists are your friend. never ever trust a man.

* never make assumptions. just because he hasn’t been spending, doesn’t mean he doesn’t have a stack in his pocket. just because he said no to her, doesn’t mean he will say no to you. you are the dream girl he’s been waiting for.