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I remember when people where calling me whorephobic & anti sex worker because I told y’all stop fucking for meaningless shit..

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my most recent post about dating well is all over the place, but what I’m trying to say is that I have no issue with young black women advising others to date well off men ( I advocate for it) but the bashing of other women as well as the anti blackness they spew in regards to BM needs to stop.

I go in on BM all the time but there’s a line between calling them out and projecting self hate/anti blackness. The tweet I was referring on Twitter was 👇🏾

Most of these women giving advice literally have nothing to show for it, and most of the time the advice is trash. Don’t let these women make you feel like you can’t date a regular dude and that can’t be “leveling up”. If he does right by you what does it matter? I think standards like the guy having his own shit (car, crib etc) and obviously having job is basic. But expecting every nigga to fly you out, take you shopping and so forth is very unrealistic for most women. But I’m gonna save rest of my thoughts on this for podcast Chile 😩

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I can go live about this topic on twitter, if I get atleast 10-20 followers.

#brown sugar baby #brown sugar bowl #black sugar baby #black sugar bowl #sugar baby #sugar bowl #black dating #black relationships #sugar daddy #sugar dating #spoiled girlfriend #spoiled gf #hotactics

Most of the women I know personally who are “spoiled” do not seek for these men. I’ll tell you that much!

I look back at some of my old advice & im like smh I can’t believe I even said that! But that’s growth 🤣

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Create your own rules, but that doesn’t mean you can’t learn from someone’s story. Take tips into consideration but you cannot follow something you read online step by step.

One thing I have come to learn over the years is that there really aren’t any “rules” or “guidelines to follow when it comes to dating. Especially if you want to date someone with means so you can potentially become a “spoiled gf”.

#brown sugar baby #brown sugar bowl #black sugar baby #black sugar bowl #sugar baby #spoiled girlfriend #spoiled gf #hotactics

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Do I have any plus size/thiq followers

Let’s engage in conversation about this dating shit chile...

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I need to know if you feel like your weight is holding you back or makes you feel unattractive. I’ve gained a lot of weight and I’m not used to being this size and it’s annoying me tbh.

I want to get into dating but I really feel like it’s harder when you’re plus size and dark skinned. Anywho let me know what y’all think

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my most recent post about dating well is all over the place, but what I’m trying to say is that I have no issue with young black women advising others to date well off men ( I advocate for it) but the bashing of other women as well as the anti blackness they spew in regards to BM needs to stop.

I go in on BM all the time but there’s a line between calling them out and projecting self hate/anti blackness. The tweet I was referring on Twitter was 👇🏾

Most of these women giving advice literally have nothing to show for it, and most of the time the advice is trash. Don’t let these women make you feel like you can’t date a regular dude and that can’t be “leveling up”. If he does right by you what does it matter? I think standards like the guy having his own shit (car, crib etc) and obviously having job is basic. But expecting every nigga to fly you out, take you shopping and so forth is very unrealistic for most women. But I’m gonna save rest of my thoughts on this for podcast Chile 😩

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For all my black SBs, escorts

And women who like to date niggas with money please gather here cause I got some shit to ask.

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Let me just write what I wanna say before I forget..

I just made a twitter thread about this, and it’s something I’ve been thinking about for awhile too as well.

Now I always preach about dating well and just doing better all around when it comes to dating. I talk to my friends about it all the time and I’m always chatting about wanting a boss nigga to come sweep me up and take me shopping. And listen there’s nothing wrong about that neither. But I’m a realistic person, for one I’m dark skin and plus sized and I live in NY. Chances of me meeting someone wealthy is damn near slim to none if I’m being honest. Now don’t get me wrong I’m cute af and I have a bomb personality so even if I was to lose weight or even get my body done, what that might bring my chances up a couple notches? So anyways I think having standards and or even high standards are cool because I have them myself and I see nothing wrong with that. But keep in mind that meeting a “wealthy” man won’t come easy. But dating someone who’s making a decent salary (for me 100k and up) and can provide a comfortable lifestyle and still be able to have some luxuries is attainable. Now I’m not saying YOU CANT OR WONT ever meet a wealthy man. But a wealthy man DOES NOT mean a GENEROUS man.

But bashing women who choose to date regular guys are corny. If that man doing right by her and doing wtf he should be doing then I don’t care. Some women like simple shit and not everyone is into a certain lifestyle and that’s fine. The only women I go in on are pick mes and women who are straight up idiots. But anywho let’s discuss

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Do you think it’s possible to find a socially conscious BM? In regards to dating?

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I think this is important that we discuss guys guilt tripping and basically putting women in uncomfortable situations until they give in and have sex. It’s disgusting and I know many girls in high school and even college who’ve dealt with this.

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Reposting this due to the Chris Stylezz scandal.

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Hi I wanted to know ur view and in depth opinion beauty standards and focus on colorism in the African American community from families, relationships(preferences) and industries in Hollywood like makeup and hip hop (female rappers)

I have multiple posts about colorism on my page. As a darker skinned woman, I never experienced it in my family, school or anything until college and that was more so in regards to dating. So it wasn’t bad compared to those who were bullied, abused and treated poorly.

In regards to Hollywood, I think people are trying hard to make dark skin it now. I think it’s all a front tbh people are still colorist as fuck behind the scenes 🤷🏿‍♀️

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Hollywood ain’t doing shit chile, this didn’t age well

Damn some of the advice I used to give was horrible 🤣🤣🤣🤣

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if he's already bringing up sex

let it go…

sometimes some of y'all really need to use common sense, because if this was daquan up the block asking for pussy would he even get a response?

no i didn’t think so…

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just because he’s being honest that don’t mean squat diddly, at the end of the day guys with real money never discuss sex when they first meet you.

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^^

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Whew with age comes with knowledge. Men are men and if they want to fuck they will make it clear but some are manipulators. They will lie to get what they want rich or poor 🤷🏿‍♀️

Horrible advice y’all don’t take it🤣🤣

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