I am fucking BEGGING transmascs (and everyone else) to not let the animosity of a VERY SMALL GROUP of very online transfems impact how you interact with transfems or think about transfems.
please, please, please remember that this "hating transmascs" and "kill all TMEs" bullshit is just a few edgy weirdos on the internet who enjoy saying inflammatory things for shock value.
transfems are not your enemy, and YES, you do actually need to unlearn transmisogyny. Not because you're transmasc, but because we live in a transmisogynistic society.
transfems are not a hivemind, there's no broader transfem consensus that transmascs are Evil Privileged Abusers, but the small group of people who think that way WANT you to believe that they are representative of trans women everywhere. they're super not. they really are just a handful of angsty people online looking for someone to pick on.
all trans people have more commonalities than differences. there aren't two distinct species of trans people from two different planets, there are just trans people with a wide diversity of experiences and walks of life. we are all affected by the same systems of oppression.
find community and mutual support with transfems. build solidarity and have conversations about how we can help each other. the only way we all get through this shit is together.
this but with the reminder that unfortunately these people also exist offline and can do real harm to the transmasc people in their lives but. yeah. they're not representative of all transfems and it's ridiculously transmisogynistic to even suggest that they are.
queer people who are hateful to a different type of queer people are just bigots, and they unfortunately often weaponize their queerness to escape criticism and accountability. you can be queer and queerphobic.
meaning you're also just queerphobic if you use the wrongs of some transfems to generalize all transfems as evil. no one is immune. but all of us can change our beliefs for better so. get at it





















