From âThe Adventure of the Three Garridebsâ, when Watson is shot: âFor the first time, I had a glimpse of a great heart as well as a great brain.â
From âThe Adventure of the Six Napoleonsâ, when Lestrade pays Holmes a sincere and heartfelt compliment : âAnd as he turned away, it seemed he was more nearly moved by the softer human emotions than I had ever seen him.â
From âThe Problem of Thor Bridgeâ, when a rich client explains how he tried to seduce his childrenâs governess: âthis young lady was in a sense under your protectionâŚyou have tried to ruin a defenseless girl who was under your roof. Some of you rich men have to be taught that all the world cannot be bribed into condoning your offenses.â
From âThe Adventure of the Veiled Lodgerâ, after hearing the tragic story of a woman whose face was mauled by a lion; âThen Holmes stretched out his long arm and patted her hand with such a show of sympathy as I had seldom known him to exhibit, âPoor girl!â he said, âPoor girl! The ways of fate are indeed hard to understand. If there is not some compensation hereafter, then the world is a cruel jestâ â
From âThe Adventure of the Speckled Bandâ, when speaking with a client whose father is physically abusive: âFive little livid spots, the marks of four fingers and a thumb, were printed upon the white wrist. âYou have been cruelly used,â said Holmes.â
Also, in âThe Adventure of Abbey Grange,â he helps a young man escape, who intervened to prevent an alcoholic aristocrat from beating his wife.
In âThe Adventure of the Second Stainâ, Holmes goes out of his way to shield Lady Hilda from her husbandâs anger, even though the husband was Holmesâ client.
In âThe Adventure of the Blue Carbuncleâ he lets a pathetic petty criminal go free because he doesnât think making him a âjailbirdâ will help.
There are many other instances of Holmes showing kindness, empathy and even breaking the law to help people gain justice.
Other phrases and words Watson uses to describe Holmes at various times:
âwithout a harshness, which was foreign to his nature.â
âhe had a remarkable gentleness and courtesy in his dealings with women.â
Holmes may have displayed a certain impatience for social affectation, but he maintains a strong moral compass and asserts this fact several times, in various situations, towards various people.
This idea that Holmes is a âsociopathicâ asshole is quite a contemporary reading and, might I add, a lazy one thatâs as ignorant of mental illness as it is offensive to those of us whoâre tired of white men getting to stomp all over people in the name of âgeniusâ and âanti-heroâ status. BBC Sherlockâs reading of Holmes is one thatâs built on popular cultural tropes, and succeeds because of it. âElementaryâ reads Holmes with a fuller attention to the complexities of his character.
Anytime someone says âwell Holmes is an assholeâ as a conclusive fact, I know that your canon knowledge is either limited or deliberately misinterpreted.