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I have failed drastically on things I put much effort into getting and I have also felt like giving up those things that were so important to me at some point, but when I figure out the value of not giving up, I decided to keep trying until I get it right. You see people every day commit suicide because the surface of the earth had chew them up and help couldn’t come from anywhere or anyone.…

5 Ways to Stop You from Judging Other People

‌   One of the biggest steps I have made in my adulthood, which has certainly made me more delighted and a valuable friend, is the ability to not judging people. Okay, for the record I do not want you to see it as I have never judged anyone, or I don’t ever judge others – we are humans and we all have the proclivity of doing so. I am not different in doing so but I have learned that judging…

Lindsie’s Story – A Survivor of Rape (Sexual Abuse)

  This is a story of how I was raped as a teenager My best friend Diane always goes to their family store every day with her mum. The store is not too far from where I live so I visited her just like I did every other day. Each time I visited Diane’s family store, I always help out in packing, arranging, cleaning the store, and sometimes selling goods. One unfortunate day, I visited Diane in the…

Olivia’s Story – A Survivor of Sexual Assault From an Uncle  

   Sexual assault story  I was sexually abused by a so-called uncle who visited the house when my parent goes to work. When I was about 5years old, my uncle would come to the house with a snack and tell me to have all of it, in return for him to touch my private part and insert his finger into my vagina. He would bring a phone, show me some naked pictures, then ask me to undress while he take…

REBLOG CHERIEWHITE’S STORY – A SURVIVOR OF  BULLYING AND ABUSE

    I didn’t experience bullying, anything beyond normal teasing until I moved to a small Tennessee town after having been an Army Brat and lived in several different areas. Until then, bullying had always been something that happened to kids in the movies.   When I became a target of severe and chronic bullying as a sixth-grader at the age of twelve, I began a long lesson in the human…

SIMPLE WAYS TO BOOST YOUR SELF-CONFIDENCE

  One of the most giant steps I have taken in my life, which has undoubtedly helped me stay strong and face unforeseen challenges, is self-confidence. While growing up, I would be scared of speaking in public or meeting people due to shyness and timidity. I rather communicate with people online than face to face. It was annoying because I never got to do those things which I was good at and I…

5 BENEFICIAL WAYS OF SETTING YOUR FINANCIAL GOALS

The act of setting financial goals is essential for every individual that has plans to succeed in life. Whether you are a little kid longing to get a doll or you are grown up hoping to get yourself a car, everyone has what troubles them financially. The first thing to do when this problem arises is to set your financial goal. See also:  HOW TO OVERCOME NEGATIVE THOUGHTS ABOUT MONEY   What are…

5 ESSENTIAL BENEFITS OF PRACTICING GRATITUDE

Gratitude is one of the tools people fail to recognize despite the free daily access to it. When the year is about to be over, individuals start to think of everything they have to be grateful for. Why wait for the year to come to an end before you show gratitude? Showing appreciation needs no finance to budget on or must have plans for it, however, it’s free and the benefit can be…

HOW TO OVERCOME NEGATIVE THOUGHTS ABOUT MONEY

The world is filled with individuals eager to make Money without thought of the pros and cons. Money has a strong influence on the way individuals present themselves and live their lives. However, it is quite impossible for emotions not to be attached to them. There are negative ideas concerned about how to make money which eventually is a set up for financial stress. Wealthy men and women…

5 THINGS TO DO TO IMPROVE YOUR MOOD EVERY DAY

  We wake up in the morning feeling all melancholy like we were beating in our sleep – it goes with a saying “waking up on the wrong side of the bed”. This kind of mood can affect and ruin your entire day. When you start your day with a sad face, you’re more likely to be unhappy the whole day. Once your mood changes from the morning, it’d affect your attitude and your schedule of the day. It’s…

HOW TO FIND YOURSELF AGAIN WHEN YOU ARE FEELING LOST IN LIFE

Finding yourself when you have lost a sense of who you are can be very difficult especially, when in a state of grief of your loved one. When you are feeling lost in life, it comes with self-denial, anger, and frustration which are signs of depressions, and when you finally recognize that you are going through motions, you would want to bargain with yourself hoping to get a positive result from…

DEALING WITH LOSS AND GRIEF

2021 is my first tangible experience with loss   The year just got started and it is already becoming abrupt. A lot had happened these few weeks which I never imagined would happen and in many ways, I am still bewildered about it all. Last year was shitty due to the coronavirus pandemic that affected the world making everyone remain at home just to be safe from the virus and the killings at the…

HOW TO OVERCOME FEAR AS AN INTROVERT

Fear is universal and it’s ineluctable to every human, irrespective of the personality (either introvert or extrovert) One of the plights introvert faces is ‘FEAR’ not because they are afraid but because the world has infused that word ‘fear’ to just introvert alone, making them look like they can’t do anything other than becoming afraid of everything. I’m an introvert and I know there are lots…