I Spiral In Dark Patterns

things are especially hard for me on account of my big brown eyes & correct opinions on everything

hey can we be fucking honest with each other for a sec? the endless cyberstalking and sexual harassment that people on this website subject transfems to - building documents of information and networks of rumors and public harassment campaigns against trans women - is directly responsible for the kinds of suicides we're mourning today on trans day of remembrance -- this is not "discourse" this is not "infighting" this is real life or death shit

if you are on the side of cyberstalking random trans women (typically autistic, often twoc, often victims of SA), then we are not "in the same community" you are my fucking enemy. trans mras will often evoke the threat of "conservatives who want us dead" to gesture at unity (and try to shut up transfeminism); if you participate in or just support and agree with these disgusting fucking campaigns, YOU are the conservative who wants trans women dead.

“Yeah, we can eat this twogirl style” my girlfriend, referring to a pizza we just ordered

Reblog if you want to get eaten twogirl style

youve been a bad *remembers youre plural* people

men really be like “well this woman has studied this subject her whole life, and i am a man, so we have equal knowledge on this”

it’s ok you could have just said “i hate men”

okay, i hate men

we deserve to have media with fat characters that like being fat and that are confident and happy in their fatness and they do not want to change that one bit im being very reasonable here

if you ever bouncing your leg or shaking your foot that bc you were borned without a tail to swish swish...

y'know come to not think of it,

Girls I am looking you in the eye and holding you tight. 99% of all things people describe as being female or male puberty is made up bullshit. Sex is not as black and white as you think (nor is it real for that matter.) Please. Dont listen. Jaw sizes and leg lengths and whatever is made up, misogynistic, and sometimes even race science. PLEASE im begging you to not hold yourself to such standards, much less other people.

its infuriating watching people talk around transmisogyny on this website like its some sort of abstract issue, and not an indicator of attitude. heres one experience i had: a transmasc coworker became obviously uncomfortable when i mentioned transmisogyny and started handwringing about female socialisation. less than a week later he sexually harassed me on the job.