when I first bought my house, I announced my decision to paint my bedroom purple. I had wanted a purple bedroom for thirty damn years, you fucking bet I was gonna have one now. My friends decided, for some reason, that I meant what one of them referred to as β14 year old girl purpleβ (through whatβs wrong with the colors a 14 year old girl chooses, I donβt know, even if theyβre not what I want as an adult). They didnβt believe me until they saw the color on the actual wall, even thought they helped me pick out paints. My mother, meanwhile, decided to get worried that if I painted my bedroom a βdark purpleβ, it would be βdepressingβ. As if, with an entire house to live in, I would spend all my time in the bedroom, which I wanted to be dark because I would be sleeping in there. In the damn dark.
I had like one, maybe two friends who were all like FUCK YEAH YOU PAINT IT WHATEVER COLOR YOU WANT, PURPLE BEDROOMS ARE AWESOME.
But when they actualy saw the finished bedroom, every single one of them was like, βOh yeah, thatβs really pretty.β (Well, the ones who supported me from the beginning were more like WOOHOO.)
And the moral of the story is: Fuck βem, please yourself. Either theyβll come around, or you can safely ignore every question of taste they opine about for the rest of time.