MADE FROM CLAY, NOT THE RIB

Something that gets overlooked in the discourse about women who struggle to connect with women and get along better with men is that they typically aren’t good at connecting with ANYONE… its like when people say they LOVE animals, but hate people. That man is going to laugh at your jokes no matter what and that dog is going to beg for a scrap regardless of who’s at the table. If you can’t connect with other women, it’s not that other women are opaque and inconsistent. You are just gravitating towards a predictable source of social validation. Tragically the same shallow nature of connections with men that make them easy to access also stalls development, of relationships and of skills