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It's both highly beautiful and highly tragic for everyone that personality disorder allistics unable to integrate into normal society and non personality disordered autistic women both tumble to odd corners of society together where we drive each other completely insane. Obviously we are all individuals and vary widely but in broad strokes you can generalize that allistic people with personality disorders really crave incredibly fine grained and flexible very very high emotional responsiveness ,wavelengths of communication that in general autistic people struggle with. On the other hand autistic people broadly feel better when other people are very consistent, reliable, direct, and calm when misunderstandings occur, which is NOT something the personality disordered are known for. And personality disordered autistic women are here too and need both of those very specific things that already aren't happening for 90% of the women who only needed one of them.

HOWEVER explosively conflicting access needs are really interesting and create amazing opportunities for bizarre and esoteric forms of growth you could NEVER have imagined otherwise. Were all out here forging absolutely mindboggling new abilities in unthinkable fires

You're not allowed to watch morally questionable movies because you're prone to evil and it can corrupt you. Whereas I'm allowed to watch morally questionable movies because I'm such a good person that the movies are actually redeemed by my consumption of them. If I write a favorable letterboxd review the rehabilitative effect is even stronger. But you are still not allowed to watch them in that case. Ok?