I don't know why people think "I am thinking about Thing in a sexy way" equals "I want and definitely will do Thing in a sex way in real life if I have a chance"
Because like this is how it actually works for me at least:
Some of the things in the green circle would literally disgust me in the other tiers
Some of it is even stuff that other people would find very normal and pedestrian
Sexual partners calling each other "babe" > outside of written fiction is an immediate boner killer for me but in a piece of writing can be hot
Like c'mon
Some things are only fun in your head when there are no actual bodily fluids or clean up or effort needed
Imagination does not equal actual real life actions




















