You know whatâs sad? Having to tell my adult patients that they donât have to be boring fucks who hate everything to be considered adults.
Seriously, people have a very weird idea of what it means to be an adult. I have patients who come to me and tell me they are unhappy with their lives and they donât understand why, because they have a job, they have a good salary, they can pay their bills, they have a significant other, theyâre doing everything right and still theyâre unhappy.
And then we start talking and talking and, finally, we reach the real problem: they stopped being themselves.
I have so many patients who stopped doing things they liked - harmless things, fun things - because they felt it was innapropriate for an adult to do them.
Videogames? Iâm too old for that.
Comic books? Iâm too old for that.
Disney movies? Thatâs for kids.
Super hero movies/series? Iâm an adult, I should act like one.
Going to parks/carnivals? I donât have kids to do that with.
Itâs scary how these people simply gave up on these fun hobbies just because they reached a certain age. And itâs even more scary that they donât see the problem with this.
Adult life is more than just work, paying bills and marriage. Itâs about going out with your friends, itâs about buying silly things that have no purpose but to bring you a little joy, itâs about having fun and living your life to the fullest.
You donât have to be a boring fuck to be an âacceptable adultâ. Fuck society and fuck whoever says you canât like something because youâre âtoo oldâ.
Youâre never too old to do the things you like, play the games you want to play and watch the movies/series you want to watch.
Dress up and go to Comic Con. Go to the midnight premiere of your favorite super hero movie. Read the âsilly teen booksâ you want to read. Play that âchildishâ game youâve been wanting to play.
Being an adult doesnât mean you need to forget who you are. Being older doesnât mean you need to let go of the things you love and enjoy.
Be unapologetically yourself and go live your best life!